Recent content by Devastated

Definitely wouldn’t let him know it bothered me. I think I’ll try the hello approach next time. It just put me off guard when he come in. Totally never expected it at all. Now I’m ready for the next visit!!!!!

It was actually a week of being a year since we started seeing each other. Why in god would someone appear to rub a new GF in your face. Knowing it was a special date???

One harsh tiday is our anniversary!!!!!

Exactly what I did minus the warm smile. I just carried on about my business as normal.

Absolutely not!! She is welcome to him! I just wanted to understand why he would even set foot in my bar. I’m actually thinking of refusing him entry next time. Since seeing him , he’s been on my mind again 24/7!! When I thought I’d finally gotten over him.

I definitely would say he is part Narcissist. Oh has some of those features. The more I’ve read up on BPD I’ve come to realise they do have some narc traits. And let me tell you . The way he paraded this new girl around, was quiet evil. Many many bars To go to. But he turns up at mine. Stands...

That’s exactly what the first time felt like. I couldn’t go through it again. I actually looked at his new GF, she was smiling flirting being all happy. I thought you poor girl, you have no idea what’s around the corner....

3 years ago. But remains untreated. As it was only talked about by whoever was helping him. He doesn’t believe in it. He refuses to see anyone about it. He said he waS just in a bad place since his ex girlfriend suddenly killed her self. I didn’t really pay any attention what BPD was until he...

You couldn’t be more spot on. It’s just nothing I’ve ever been through. I can’t even explain how bad I feel. Like he was my left arm. Normally things don’t work out. Move on-closure- next!! Not this guy. He’s in my mind 20/47

I know exactly what you mean. It’s just easier to get him out of my head while he’s out of sight. Bringing her into my bar just made my head spin! I was calm though. Made out it didn’t bother me. He was the one watching me. Very ****y indeed to bring her in. I am so mad I’ve taken two steps...

Hi there I’m new to this forum. Ok here goes. I was dating my exBPD for five months. As usually it was great. Then he disappeared into thin air. Nothing for four months. Then he finally replied to an email ( he blocked me on every social media and phone) saying he would love to be friends ect. I...