Recent content by Degenerate Haven

I have found the opposite to be more true. The more I am into a woman or type of woman, the less likely I am to get them. I know when years back I had a thing for blondes, could barely get them. Now, I get them in droves but don't have that same thing for them.

Cougar cub relationship meaning you are technically a "young man" going for a Cougar (older woman) and it is like a thing. See poll for options.

Not that much of an outlier though. Your look would be able to get most kinds of women in the US since you are probably as American looking as it gets with your appearance, maybe a Tom Brady lookalike?

Are you a dark-haired white guy? I think that could explain a lot. I always feel like the media pushes this whole ideal of dark-haired white guy with blonde girl and blond haired white guy with brunette...and we all know that women follow the media like crazy.

I can offer my take, depends on the kind of sales but also 1. You get exhausted from constantly talking 2. Have a bad month or quarter, it impacts your overall confidence 3. You have a lot of toxic coworkers in sales which can rub off on you in a bad way 4. You learn that the success in...

It always warms me to hear good cold approach stories. For me, I have never seen it pulled off as much in real life and I keep reading about it working. I have seen so many good looking women in my city and tried online dating here that I already notice the gap. I've had about 250 matches on...

I can confirm that I have noticed this as well. There are some odd exceptions here and there but most of the times, it is the hideous looking women or older women well past their prime that are the harshest. I notice it in group settings too where the ugliest girl will say the harshest things to...

I went back and read the post about misc detectives and all that, kind of had to figure out what you guys were talking about but then I got into the nitty gritty of it. Yeah, it is messed up as to how in a lot of male self-improvement communities, you have to worry a lot about being exposed to...

No matter where you come from and where you are in this world, there is one piece of game advice I want to share which has shifted my approach to game exponentially. I went from regressing to the point where I could not even talk to women who were interested in me to now making cold approaches...

What did the trick?

LOL Central Park = tourists and old karens, at least so far.

The problem with decent rooftops in NYC is that you have a long freaking wait for everything.

That is what I am running into, trying to get out of that club scene too though so its like I am trying to find that happy medium.

Saturday (July 30) Went sightseeing in the city and then hungout with a friend, we decide to go to a local rooftop. I make small talk with these three blondes visiting, don't go past that when one in the group talks to other guys in the elevator as we are heading up. Do not do any approaches...

Yeah my city is still slowly reopening and my area did not seem as packed. I am in a somewhat less active part of town but it does have some decent bars, granted they function more like restaurants.