Recent content by DavenJuan

reread Fugitive's post. hes spot on! Look theres no reason to feel bad. but atleast come up for fresh air. It seems as if you are intentionally looking away from all the signs. the truth is, the age gap is relevant. More relevant than you want to make it seem. And this isnt simply due...

my point isnt stating there are not DOUBLE STANDARDS. my point is that WE as men EMPHASIZE this by our expectations WE PLACE on women as it relates to sexual expectations. I agree with all your points above, yet that doesnt change that if we didnt pigeon-hole ourselves in this believe that...

While its fairly easy to agree with you that men and women are NOT the same, its just as easy to point out that you are missing a major focus here.. WRONG, as it relates to this topic, "double standards" are to assume the same EXPECTATIONS I expect from others, I provide towards myself...

LiveFreeX while I can appreciate like most other men that excitement involved with attention from attractive women, I strongly suggest "putting in place" these classroom school girls. This isnt your gf they seem to berate, this is your WIFE. I understand that these girls are your "bread...

Wheres the "double standard"? if anyone has double standards its us MEN. If we had the opportunity..or better said the CONFIDENCE to attempt to sleep two women on back to back nights, regardless of their relationship to one another, im sure MOST of us would say we would. But when a woman...

IMO, The Golden Rule doesnt apply to her. She is use to getting things her way and not having to answer for her own actions. As long as you conform to her expectations than things are fine, but if you ask her to do something outside of what she WANTS to do, then theres a problem... The...

First, you DO care. Otherwise you wouldnt have posted it. And thats fine, but i dont think if you lie to yourself, and then us, we can really give you accurate advice. Advice may differ depending on how YOU truly felt about it. With that being said, I dont think the "text" themselves are a...

wow. The level of insecurity is astonishing! We've went from finding an unopened condom on the floorboard, and some how the conclusion is overwhelming that shes creeping and a slvt. When did a women having a condom become such an issue? Look, if you dont BELIEVE her, or 2nd guess her...

Men getting tans where Im from (Cleveland) is not uncommon.... at all. The fact that you even asked this question had me baffled, as if it was frowned upon by others. Apparently this must be a geographical thing. Not to mention the women that are constantly flowing in and out of these...

"Usually" being the saving grace in this statement. MOST women SHOULD carry condoms. To label them slvts by doing so is wreckless. and give the perception to many to stay away from women like this. More I think about it, the few women that I slept with that did NOT have a condom was...

You're asking us how we would interpret finding a condom on the car floor of our GF's. the response you will get will vary. The reality of it is there are way to many variables to be able to accurately give you an opinion, the DYNAMICS of your 3 month relationship being the biggest. the...

I will apologize up front if I come off anything other than constructive, but I gotta tell you, things like this blows me away! this is ONE of the many problems with forums like this. There is some really good 'take-aways" from here, some really solid advice. ALOT which has helped me become...

Your approach should tailor to you specifically. Dont look at your age as a burden, but more as an advantage. I dont think you need to TRY and come off anymore sexual as you naturally are. Efforts to do so will come off looking desperate and uncoming. I also would try to moderate the "FUN"...

I agree with Scars here. And though I understand the idea that some men have about women who are uninterested by default tell you they have a BF, I dont believe that to be true in every case. as a matter of fact, in some scenerios women claim to have a BF not to disinterest you, but to...

No matter how well "equipped" you may feel you are to handle these types of sh!t tests regulary, at what point do you feel its unnecessary? It doesnt appear to be a healthy relationshp. to be fair, youve only provided ONE isolated incident, however the MAGNITUDE of whats being said seems to...