Recent content by DarkSideOfTheMind

I had a similar situation with a girl I had dated for about 8 months. Broke up with her in September. She went off the deep end. Attempted to have me committed to a mental hospital. Told all sorts of lies and spewed vitriol to anyone she talked to. What I did..... I remained calm. I was as...

I was dating this girl for 8 months. She was well qualified and beat the others in the stable by alot on almost all fronts. She was definitly the top horse. Anyway, I recently broke up with her, due to some troubling comments she made. She tells me on a drive back from a bar that she was in a...

Yo wiggadude.. I can appreciate and understand your situation, I too am 25, and am leaving a six figure income that equires little work to go get my PhD so I can hopefully increase the chances. It seems that there is only very few that actually "give the spark" as you so aptly put it...

Damn kid...I feel your pain. Game hard for goals now, achieve what you want for yourself and for the love of god do not contact her. I know it sounds cliche to say go forward again, but what else is there to do? Do you know what you want out of your life? If you don't figure it out, and if...

Hey, I know things look bleak, and at times they do. It's like in that movie "The Replacements" when Keanu Reeves talks about quicksand...First one thing goes wrong, then another, then another...so you struggle hader...but you just sink faster...quicksand. I was there....I lost everything...

Not only di I ask her to come, I found scholarships for her so it would be cheaper than her school is now. She said something to the effect of "This is where I choose to go to chool, etc." So not only did I ask, I tried to help.

Thanks for the advice. I told her the same, and that it would be better if we had alot of time to think. Don't know where it will go, but she has called me a few times, and left messages crying. It's kind of funny, that when you back off for a little bit, and reasses the situation how...

This post is sort of a follow-up to one I made about my girlfriend playing games because I am going to graduate school in Hawaii for my PhD and leaving her behind. I have taken the smart advice offered here and the same my brothers offered and am going no matter what. I did the LJBF thing and it...

I have a great thing that is quickly becoming a problem...... First a little background: I have been in an LTR with a HB9 for about a year and a half now. She is awesome, period. However she is only 19. I am 24 and am going to the other side of the earth to pursue my PhD. Hawaii is far far...

They say that talking to yourself is one of the first signs of insanity, oh well. By the way who determines your sanity nowadays?

Is her name Amy? --Come in here dear boy, and have a Cigar--

oh and I almost forgot, coffee is addictive, ask a coffee drinker not to drink any coffee for a week, better if its a roommate, and see what happens, there is a withdrawl period. that's a fact. Caffeine which is in coffee is a stimulant. Stimulants cause an excited state of neurotransmitter...

Ah Big N, you do site that website very well, and more power to them for existing, however go read medical research journals, not a third party information site that merely copied their information ffrom the government sources, I know i called their 1-800 and asked where they get the information...

I keep seeing the word ADDICTION used in this thread and its really bothering me. Biologically, there is no physical dependency created by the active chemicals in marijuana, period. There is a small chance of psycological addiction, but again due to our amazing bodies gift of tolerance that...

It's intresting, this post. There are alot of tuisms, but also consider the flipside, the objectification of women in the commercial realm. The male bashing in commercials and so forth is bad, but come on the real battle needs to be run politically, its bullsh!t that people, like myself for...