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Recent content by coyote_astro

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    Dating life in new city, during COVID

    So here I am, recently moved to a new city (in the US) and started a new great job, about which I'm excited! After finding a new apartment, I joined a new gym, and life is good...BUT, I'm in a new place, and have to join/start new social circles in the middle of this whole pandemic shyte.. I...
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    What fear-facing event(s) in your life has changed you for the better?

    Moving from Europe to the US all by myself, leaving friends and family behind was one of the scariest decisions I ever had to make, which though helped me grow in ways I could have never expected.
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    Choosing signals

    I missed this thread when it first appeared, but really like many of the responses. I personally feel that constantly looking for choosing signals/IOIs or whatever can be a trap, that can cause someone to rationalize not approaching. Eg "She did not show any signals so there's not point talking...
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    Shy on dates, any tips?

    The only way out is through. Keep at it (obviously in conjunction with the advice people already gave you) and will get much better!
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    "I like where we are"--interpretation?

    The flaming has begun :P
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    When to kiss

    Yes, it's very normal in many cultures like the Mediterranean ones. When I first moved to the US I assumed it was the case here as well and proceeded as usual. Needless to say, it did not go so well :P About date kissing, I never had a rule. In all the dates that went well, I could feel it was...
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    what percentage of men don't get nervous at all?

    It's a good point you made about public speaking. I am indeed one of the people that always got nervous speaking in front of crowds. Given, however, that my job demands it, and actually in front of very high-pressure audiences, I have gotten partly desensitized to it. Ever since this happened, I...
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    Blackpill has shut down RSD/PUA. Is this true?

    Now that you mentioned it, I miss the rsdnation forum. Putting some negative things apart, I used to enjoy checking it out once in a while, just like with this one here.
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    Blackpill has shut down RSD/PUA. Is this true?

    I think the first 3 ones are the most important. Btw when I watch any of their latest videos, it's so funny how much of an effort they make not to talk about women. They essentially present a watered down version of classic old game concepts, dressed up as a more politically correct and youtube...
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    Recent observations on Confidence.

    Oh yeah, the old-time classic observation that usually the stupidest people are the most confident..!
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    Blackpill has shut down RSD/PUA. Is this true?

    I think it's pretty clear that the no1 reason they switched to self-development was the metoo-related backlash they faced. They would have totally shut them down, had they not rebranded. Obviously it also worked in their favor, since general self-dev + some woo-woo stuff sells to a much wider...
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    See, the real problem with OLD is that you HAVE to date down

    When I first tried OLD back in 2014, I sucked at all aspects of it, but even then I could sense things were at least decent. As years passed by, my texting game god solid and I got much better at getting dates and some hookups. However, the last couple years at least, things have gone south in...
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    Women who are confident with their Vagina.

    Or, like A Hastily Packed Suitcase? :P Stolen from here
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    Female sexuality in overdrive now that we're reopening

    Yes, I've been thinking of the exact same thing for a while now, and it seems be supported by the evidence I've seen on OLD (which I generally don't think highly of). As my state is opening up and I moved around more, I noticed hungry looks around. But I still have to wait 2 weeks for the damn...