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Recent content by Chubbs Peterson

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    MODS- Move thread to discussion forum?

    When I posted the "Transition to Relationships" topic to the Suggestions and feedback board, I didn't plan on having a discussion about my specific situation. But it's started to go that way, and I'd like the suggest that it be moved to the main discussion board. The increased exposure should...
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    How about a "Transition to Relationships" Forum

    Wow. Thanks. This is great food for thought. My situation with her has been unusual, as one month was just casual dating, the next maybe 4 months was a long distance relationship, where we saw each other every month or so for a few days, but talked all the time. And then the last two months...
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    How about a "Transition to Relationships" Forum

    MVPlaya, you think I missed the point? I did state that I enjoyed figuring things out on my own. I did realize that the DJ rules could not be set in stone after a point, and what was exciting was trying to figure out what to apply and when. I don't think I'm looking for crutches, but i do think...
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    How would you confront a girl about cheating on you?

    Fine Sirs, All your points are well taken. I pretty much expected the "Leave it alone. Walk away" answer. That was always in my head from day one. I expected her to want to end the relationship...so I prepared myself with that mental attitude ahead of time. I do thank you for your...
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    How about a "Transition to Relationships" Forum

    Chubbs here. Been gone for a while. I was in what was mostly a good relationship. While I was in the relationship, I used a lot of what I learned here at Sosuave....but only up to a point. The good part was that I had to figure out a lot of things out on my own. I rather enjoyed the...
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    How would you confront a girl about cheating on you?

    Hello everyone, and anyone who recognizes my screen name. I'm back. It's been a long time since I've posted... and I haven't really visited the site in a while. Without getting into too much detail, I had spent the last 6 months or so with a girl who I thought could be "it". (I posted about...
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    Does being a musician help the chances of picking up a chick?

    Read the damn DJ bible before asking sh•t like this. If she's flirting with you, you ALREADY HAD YOUR CHANCE. Just get her damn number or better yet go out with her right there on the spot right after the gig, or whatever... just DO SOMETHING on the spot, and stop trying to impress her with...
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    Looks are more important than you think! Merged [Official thread]

    No offense taken. One thing is important to realize: A "good" personality doesn't necesarily mean "nice" or "pleasant" A good "personality" as far as females are concerned is one that demonstrates anything "exciting" and "fun" among other things. Perhpas the most important trait however...
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    Looks are more important than you think! Merged [Official thread]

    Brad23... First, I explicitly stated that I'm offering GENERALIZATIONS, meaning "What is true and applies to the largest amount of people" Of course everyone has individualized needs and desires, but if you don't think that men AS A WHOLE don't have needs unique to males which differ from...
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    Looks are more important than you think! Merged [Official thread]

    EXACTLY!!!! This is what I've been trying I was trying to explain. For men, physicality is probably, like, 80% of what turns us on. As far as attaction is concerned, we don't give a damn about a girls personality. Consider the reality that men can have anonymous sex with someone they don't...
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    Looks are more important than you think! Merged [Official thread]

    There's a VERY important distintion to be made... ... and that is that Males and Females have different value scales as far as looks are concerned. OF COURSE females want a good looking guy. Why wouldn't they? But looks aren't the MAIN thing females want. If you don't have a GOOD personality...
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    The Rose that Grew from Concrete...

    Re: RESPECT... but!!!! Whooooooo! You broke it down! I completely agree. And I only recently realized this after getting into an argument with a female friend of mine about sexual/gender dynamics... Displaying value, charisma, confidence, money, attractiveness, whatever... what TRULY...
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    Breaking the ice with different races

    I'd like to try and offer some help... First of all, breaking the ice with any woman, regardless of race, depends on the situation. So there's no standard answers here. However, I've been with all different races myself. Here's some GENERAL thoughts that I can offer you: It's ALWAYS good...
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    About What Gets Posted Here

    Normally I hate to be a cheerleader on these message boards, but this is something I am in complete agreement with. Particularly the part about observing "game" in the real world. Not to get into my personal background, but after being in the dating game for a while, I kept wondering why I...
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    gift

    Norp, Your question is a little too open and vague. To get a satisfactory answer, I suggest you be a little more specific with your situation. Giving any kind of gift to a woman is contingent on the type of relationship you have with her and the status of that relationship. RKTek gave you a...
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