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  1. ChristopherColumbus

    Why have standards?

    Perhaps successful relationships, or where long term relationships were the cultural norm, relied on a 'division of labor'. The man worked in the public sphere, and the woman looked after the domestic sphere. Now everyone is expected to do everything, and the 'efficiency' that once existed for...
  2. ChristopherColumbus

    Why have standards?

    The difficulty is people are full of insecurities, and one of these is the fear of being judged/ evaluated. It's easy to have too high an evaluation of women and reject them for this or that reason [conveniently before they might perhaps reject you]. Often you might think less of a woman for...
  3. ChristopherColumbus

    Why have standards?

    You don't want a woman that likes sex too much. Modesty [moderation] and some bashfulness though not prudery are good traits.
  4. ChristopherColumbus

    NoFap challenge for personal growth

    The withdrawal symptoms of a junkie. Give it time, and you'll be sleeping like a baby~
  5. ChristopherColumbus

    Why have standards?

    Of course, the logical end point of such discussions is a return to good old-fashioned standards in all respects. And this is not sarcasm, which is probably superfluous to say coming from me.
  6. ChristopherColumbus

    Should you list religion in OLD, IRL early on?

    You should be 'bombing' the local Catholic churches for a wife... not mucking around on OLD~ Edit, thought I should interrogate that word.
  7. ChristopherColumbus

    Hot young girls have Power

    The ideology of a 'marketplace' is hamstringing a lot of guys here I think. Think about it, Economy, oikos, referred to the domestic sphere of life that Odysseus and his men were leaving behind on their travels. You could say that the modern turn to political economy, well back in the...
  8. ChristopherColumbus

    Hot young girls have Power

    I think this needs emphasizing. A man's mind can be a conduit to the intelligible world that lies behind the seeming chaos of appearances. When women sense this, it is very attractive. Essentially, you are helping ground them.
  9. ChristopherColumbus

    I'm spending hours a day on OLD. Is that an issue? Obsessed?

    The thing is it becomes a vicious circle. You spend hours scrolling through hotties on the dating apps, get frustrated, visit P site, rinse and repeat. The two are probably tied at the hip. Why not give yourself a challenge and see if you can go cold turkey... from both the apps and porn? And...
  10. ChristopherColumbus

    Being single

    It's the difference between civilization and barbarism. We'd soon revert to barbarism if we didn't keep up the standards. Fascist Europe in the 30s was a reversion to barbarism.
  11. ChristopherColumbus

    I'm spending hours a day on OLD. Is that an issue? Obsessed?

    Why the obsession with the HB 9 hottie? Do you consume pornography?
  12. ChristopherColumbus

    I'm spending hours a day on OLD. Is that an issue? Obsessed?

    You seem quite immature for a 35 year old. lol
  13. ChristopherColumbus

    Being single

    OK, this should be a flashing neon sign to you. Ignore it at your peril. Your emotions are your inner core and life... despite what superficial reason [ego justification] has to say on the matter.
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