Recent content by bmp2cpm

Long post but I guarantee there are some pearls of wisdom here. As I get older, I reflect on my past actions. I share this in case it may help someone someday. For most of my life, I have looked at the first girl I pursued as one giant failure. I believe I did everything wrong. Never even...

The Wall Street Journal has a section in Sunday's Paper with the Headline "Have we ruined s*x? - Five writers ask whether society has lost its way when it comes to the most intimate of human acts." The front page of the Review section highlights: 1) A woman asking " If a woman has a fantasy of...

The mainstream media has made every attempt to divide men and women. This is not by accident. Men must ignore the media and keep being men. Biology trumps all the crazy ideology that the media keeps pushing to women. I'm floored when I hear from my wife and SIL the stories from younger women...

The only scenario when it is ok to try sleeping with an older women who you fantasized about when when you were a young teen is WHEN you have access to a time machine. If you do not have access to a time machine then you need years or therapy. If you do have access to a time machine then you...

Yep, my forever wife does not shop there! I learned my lesson long ago.

I'm cleaning out a bunch of old paperwork from my first marriage to make some room. I came across a bunch of receipts from when my first wife was having an affair. I wondered if I would find any warning signs that I missed at the time. Here's the first receipt I found. LOL!!! This receipt is...

Translation: “I’m getting mixed signals from Pandora. I’m unsure about his commitment level. I should do a little fishing expedition to reel in his commitment. Let’s talk about a baby but I’ll add in a cat to lessen the seriousness of this sh*t test.” Pandora gives his response, as usual...

Pandora, what you are describing here sure sound like sh*t tests in order to assess your level of commitment. Be careful here…fail too many sh*t tests and the girl will either leave or worse cheat. Calling a woman out on her sh*t test is a legitimate response, but should she be reserved for...

Putting her on a pedestal is having her walk all over you. Always be prepared to walk away in an instant, without hesitation, even if you really like her. She needs to know this is the case. Remember, you reward her with intimacy and she rewards you with s*x. Like I said, women do not...

If it was me and I liked the girl, I would text something like, "Because I was so tired the other night, I owe you the perfect hour-long full body massage followed by the perfect spoon." If she likes you, that will get her attention!

Sarge, You are absolutely correct, women are very much in the moment, which at times is not so good for us men. I wouldn't have texted as much detail about what happened. I would have just said something like "I was exhausted yesterday, but nothing was going to stop me from being with you."...

I’ll just add to this discussion that as a registered pharmacist of 30 years who was stupidly married to a pharmacist for 17 years: women pharmacists are not high-quality women. If they were high-quality women, they would not need to go into a 6-year science program.

I prefer my wife is the one to interact with the handy man/workers in our house. I avoid them. When this occurs, we get charged less because my wife is pretty and has amazing social skills. She can talk to anyone and get their whole life story in under a minute. Sometimes team work is letting...

Here are the actual reasons it did not work: 1) She made more than him. 2) No chemistry and therefore no emotional connection. 3) The guy rushed things before she could properly vet him.

This! Never pay attention to a women’s words. Not even your own mother’s words. Only pay attention to a woman’s actions. You ask a nice girl why things didn’t work out in the last relationship and you’ll get nice reasons because she is a nice girl. Women want control of resources. That means...