Recent content by Bigmike89

You are thinking of just superficial changes. Being a party animal isn’t necessary. However being happy with the life you have is necessary. If you are miserable right now, why should a woman want to join you in your misery? Create happiness for yourself and women will naturally want to be part...

False. Who we think we are is mostly conditioning from parents, religion, society, school, friends and so on. All of that can be changed. I know it’s possible because I have changed my personality. My former personality simply wasn’t working. Who I am now is the real me. Don’t simply accept...

The answers that you are looking for is out there, even here on this forum. If you keep doing what you are currently doing you can expect nothing to change. You want to have sex with hooter girls? Create the kind of life that a hooter girl would want to be part of. Sitting at a bar by yourself...

Lmao. That’s cool bro. Seems like you are always working

To be good at pick up requires making adjustments just like anything else. In order to be sucessful at flipping houses you have had to alter your behavior, spending habits and what you pay attention to. If what you are doing now isn’t working , make adjustments. The feedback from this...

If flipping houses make you happy and fulfilled, go for it. Live your life exactly how you want.

Yeah that is correct. When I listen in on girls having conversations there isn’t much substance to it. Girls talk about things that if we as men discussed those things, it would be ridiculous because it’s simply dumb ****. However that’s how they connect. I used to not like small talk and...

Damn bro. Why even go out? Haha

Nothing serious tbh. Mostly just playful banter and me being ****y funny. Last week, I meet a girl while waiting in line at the bar. She made a comment about how tall I was. I replied with something like, “thanks for reminding me sometimes I forget with smirk on my face”. As the conversation...

Ah I lived in Orlando for 6 years. It’s a good city. Yeah some bartenders do come as a snobbish. Forgetting that they work in a service industry for tips haha. Usually it’s the young and pretty ones used to constant validation from men that act that way

Since this post I have closed two girls on the same night. When I am out. I circulate, socialize. I don’t focus on getting numbers anymore. The last girl I closed on the same night wanted to give me her phone number after after talking for about 15 mins. In the past I would have taken it and...

What city do you live in? That might play a role in the quality of women you meet

I have noticed that girls tend to ask questions like where are you from, what do you do etc not because they want to get to know me but as a way to sort of put me in a category of whether or not she’s interested. To flip the script, i could reframe the questions she asks into another question...

Has anyone gotten positive feedback from being sexually direct verbally in a club environment? I don’t mean being sexually direct as an opener but as a means of building attraction during a conversation? When I have done it in the past, it seems girls welcome it because they feel desired, and...

That makes sense. I will give it a shot over the weekend and see what happens. Seems I have been doing one or the other but not both. I just realized that I have also been too obvious. Which reduces mystery...