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    Forum content just getting worse

    The forum morphs and changes and cycles, just like the waves on the sea, depending on the forces that are out there. I've seen it all, and I've seen it cycle back. What we can know for certain is that the forum cannot remain static.
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    So wtf happened this time

    OP, you ask WTF happened this time, people tell you, and you refute everyone. What's the point of asking?
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    For those who do online dating (which seems more required with the pandemic)

    Make humorous remarks like “Uh-oh… you lost a couple points with me on that one. You’ll have to make up for it”. Basically pepper a few humorous questions about her suitability, but these must be in a friendly, self-amused way. Combine that with leading her physically and mentally and you’ve got...
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    If they are actively engaged in the conversation...

    “I have a boyfriend”. This is your lucky day. Now you can have two!
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    So what do you think about the Gabby Petito case?

    I also think that sometimes these young couples isolate themselves so much that their relationship becomes their own little world that morphs into a bunch of toxic dynamics. It happens unnoticed and undefined, so that they find themselves in this sick little world of two people. It’s similar to...
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    So what do you think about the Gabby Petito case?

    I haven’t read the article but here’s my take on it. I was just telling my wife this last night. 1) White female 2) Young, bubbly (iow “cute”) 3) Pretty 4) YouTuber If she wasn’t all those things, she’d be just another missing persons or murder case.
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    What I've learned from being out of the game for over 2 years (rant)

    Facial problem, teeth, breath, skin condition, or weird personality quirk. These are the possibilities. OP, you should know which one(s) it is.
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    What I've learned from being out of the game for over 2 years (rant)

    OP, this isn’t a “looks” issue. There is likely something in your personality, something you’re projecting that is turning women off. If you were to take a stab at it, what would you guess this personality trait might be? Usually our gut feeling is the right answer. Is there something in your...
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    Looking from a distance

    Even when I look at my wife while sitting next to each other watching TV, I can see her eyebrows involuntarily raise a little. These devious creatures have incredible peripheral vision. Everything about them is covert.
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    For those who do online dating (which seems more required with the pandemic)

    To this I would add, make her aware early on that you are testing and evaluating her to see if she fits in your life and meets your expectations. In other words, you are judging her. You’ve got to flip that script. Most men loudly broadcast that they’re all-in right from the start. Women sense...
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    Looking from a distance

    A sure fire way to detect interest is if you catch her several times looking away when you look at her. Women are masters at looking away in a split second as soon as they sense that you are about to look at them. You will always be able to catch the very tail end of her averting her eyes and...
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    Calling Women Out vs. Silent Acceptance

    I have never understood the prevailing thoughts around here regarding this issue. Most guys here always think of only two options, which are polar opposites. Either “call her out”, which to most of you means conveying weakness and neediness, or slink away quietly, which is supposedly the way to...
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    Oldest age woman you'd have sex with?

    For me it was a 36 year old when I was about 24. It was less of a thrill than I imagined it would be. Back then I thought of women in their 40s as repulsive old hags. Even when I reached my 40s and 50s I only dated women in their 30s. I thought of 40s as old and worn out. But then I’ve always...
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    Messed up my career

    Except that by posting here, he was exposed to your excellent advice.
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    Oldest age woman you'd have sex with?

    I used to work at a museum. We had a 4,000 year-old Egyptian queen mummy. I was young. I had needs. Don’t judge
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