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    The Hardest Thing You'll Ever Do As A Man

    no, the hardest thing you'll do is tell the truth, especially when it hurts to do so.
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    Lowering standards

    there are so many cute 7.5-8.5 in barcelona right now it's almost vomit inducing. and they ****. and if you're too stupid and too attached to keep looking at the 9s-9.5 that are also around the city right now, you'll miss out. ask me how i know. now the issue i'm curious about is - you meet a...
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    Banging My Ex, Is This A Bad Idea?

    Sorry, I just can't imagine myself in such a situation, my ego is too high, but you seem to be giving him exactly the right advice. let her go man, life is too short to be putting up with people who don't respect you or treat you right
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    Lowering standards

    just going to bounce few things at no one in particular. you must have a feedback loop and observe it, and TRUST IT. if you think you can get 8's (or should), yet when you go out, you can't close 8s, but you seem to be able to close 6s continuously, you should understand what needs adjusting...
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    Banging My Ex, Is This A Bad Idea?

    """But how do i deal with her disrespectful behaviour is more of an issue for me??? "'' start TELLING HER THESE THINGS. Seriously, look at your posts dude, are you blind or in denial or what? If you want to get back with her, you can, but it'll end up like the last time. If you think you can...
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    Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.

    Johny, have you read Intimacy by Osho? If not I think you'd like it quite a bit.
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    get a 1k $ mini van, live in it.

    That's one hell of a life. Don't have too much fun.
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    Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.

    you don't want any people around you that you can control at whim. Those are desperate, and you are desperate to control. Instead...recognize people come and go. When you want to...when you don't want to. Much easier.
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    Relationship duties

    You answered your own 'dumped a rich guy' story with the last line. Resources are not just money. I used to have girls tell me 'well, at least you're funny' and I didn't understand wtf they meant. What they meant is they had a good time with me, so whatever else they might have thought they...
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    How do I allow myself to **** hot women?

    see, sometime around 29 I started buying into the idea that long terms they want money! so thank you much for the list, I swear I missed the memo. Explains how those unemployed guys who spend hours talking to girls on the phones get laid..they matched up with time and communication. ****...
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    How do I allow myself to **** hot women?

    I figured out why some thought i was a troll was it so hard for you guys to say 'um, if you CAN get a hot chick, con-****ing-grats!' I'm not trolling I was raised by women and I'm a writer, the insecurity is leaking out.
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    How do I allow myself to **** hot women?

    I understand what you're saying but you're also contradicting yourself. The better your resource skill set, the higher number you can get: time, money are inverse of each other. being kind grows over the years? I'd say maybe through empathy, but most people get more jaded with age. Not...
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    How do I allow myself to **** hot women?

    What if I want to keep ****ing them after the first time? But actually looking at it, no, that's not enough, because for these women THE GAME is what's important. The sex yes, but the way the guy gets HER to sex. Game is that part. (and some projection of substance) After you have sex...
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    How do I allow myself to **** hot women?

    IMO, it's not that basic. Because those women KNOW they are powerful. There are hundereds of guys lining up to do the same thing after me. Qualifying them is cool, but at some point she'll ask - um, why does this guy think he's such hot sh!t? And that's where "because i just think so' ain't...
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    How do I allow myself to **** hot women?

    oh please, tell me more. My rep was all green before I don't know who changed all of it to red.
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