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Recent content by Airstryke

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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thanks, fellas. I turn 32 in January, never been married/no kids, have a great job, and hopefully will own my own place here shortly. There's a lot of good going on in my life. I agree with all that you're saying that I should just Monk Mode it for a while and see what happens from there...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    You're probably right. I think I'm subconsciously trying to fill the hole (no pun intended) that she left. I've definitely been trying to better myself since she left. Been going to the gym 4 days a week and feel better about myself than I have in a while. I think I need to fly solo for a...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 22 since the breakup and Day 16 since NC. It's crazy how this ebbs and flows. One day I'm doing great and I couldn't care less that she's gone and the next day, I'm miserable and constantly comparing her to others/my plates. Since I work with her, I always see her car outside and have...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 9. I've had some good days but the last couple have been rough. I worked from home for a week so it made it easy to not see her. We get out of work at the same time in the afternoon and I caught a glimpse of her walking to her car...and that **** ate me up inside. I didn't say anything and...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yeah, I realize that now. I'm doing that. Just been a little harder than I was anticipating so far. I'll get there though.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I wouldn't be all that surprised if that's really what's going on but she was pretty adamant that this wasn't for another guy. Who knows if she was just blowing smoke to "protect me" though. She went on and on about how she has a ton of stuff to figure out and can't do it when she's focusing...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Reset. Back to Day 2. I was stupid and responded to her text on Monday knowing that probably wasn't a good idea. I basically just said that I'm going dark so she knew where I stood. No reply on her end, which I'm not exactly shocked. She already said she wanted time to herself so I imagine...
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    She called things off out of nowhere...

    Yeah, that's all there is to it. There's no point in trying to talk to somebody that has no interest in things with you. Time to Next her and see what else is out there.
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    She called things off out of nowhere...

    Well, she replied late last night for the first time in 3 days. I have my answer. "I'm so sorry I totally forgot to text you back when I got home...it's been a crazy weekend. I hope you had a good holiday! Getting into bed but didn't want to not respond!.. as for what I want... that's the...
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    She called things off out of nowhere...

    Alright, first things first. I would definitely NOT classify myself as any kind of needy b!tch. I'm definitely picky when it comes to relationships, though. This girl was just smoking hot and seemed down to earth. Which brings me to my next point. How do you fellas stop yourselves from...
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    She called things off out of nowhere...

    My plan is to move on like I never even met the girl. The only downer is she's a coworker but luckily she's on a different floor of the building and I rarely have to go up there. The only chance of seeing her would be in the parking lot before/after work. The more I think about it, the more I...
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    She called things off out of nowhere...

    Yeah, looking back on it I definitely should have just agreed to it and moved on. I haven't said anything since Thursday but neither has she. Yeah, we've had sex many times. We couldn't keep our hands off each other.
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    She called things off out of nowhere...

    Thanks guys. Step 1 for me is to pour over the DJ Bible. I appreciate the link. I do think @macallik is spot on about me not meeting a lot of women nowadays. I work in IT so it's usually dudes that I'm around and I guess I just don't approach them like you guys are saying. That needs to change too.
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    She called things off out of nowhere...

    I posted this on the NC thread but thought I'd create my own also. Been a rough few days... I stumbled across this site a couple of days after she blindsided me with the "I'm not ready for a relationship" line. We had been together for 3 months and everything seemed great. Met through a work...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 3. I stumbled across this site a couple of days after she blindsided me with the "I'm not ready for a relationship" line. We had been together for 3 months and everything seemed great. Met through a work friend after she noticed me making the rounds at the office. I guess that's the...
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