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    early retirement vs. living for today

    hi, if everything was to remain constant, i'd be able to retire at age 40. Not that impressive, but earlier than 98% of the population I'm sure. of course things don't stay the same and the figures could change, but something dawned on me recently as I took a day off work. What would I do...
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    Feeling like I "peaked"...headed down??

    life (experience) is a drug, you need more of it to keep the same high your age has nothing to do with it you don't need meds or a shrink, but you do need to eat right and sleep well. I agree with Dominant, you need a larger goal; a degree, a job , a house... welcome to average...
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    a problem with Pookism

    to A-unit and others I'm not so sure I understand. so what you're saying is, I should stop focusing on finding a woman that impresses me, but just find one that I can enjoy being around? So I should look for a pleasing appearance and fun personality and disregard their circumstances? I...
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    Is David D'Angelo's book really worth it??

    no the book might be worth it, but the advanced series definetely is not. He doesn't go into all new detail like he says he does. And even if he did, it might be that you are still waiting to hear the magic words that will make you an instant success with girls. I know that was why I...
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    Stay away from strip clubs

    blah strip clubs are good for learning: -how to approach a hot woman -conversational skills (its part of their routine, if its not, find a different girl) -how to say NO to a hot woman (drinks/dances) -how to tell a woman what you want -how to touch a woman (depends where you go and what...
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    a problem with Pookism

    no, I agree with Pook I don't have a problem with his posts. I embraced his attitude of self-focus. I'm doing great for myself, yet I'm finding it harder to meet women because I now have these standards that just aren't being met. My whole view of women has distorted because I've changed and...
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    a problem with Pookism

    Almost 4 years ago I got burned by a cute girl because I was an ultimateAFC. I had learned the behavior from my father and didn't know any other way to act with women, or in life itself. But then I found this site, and started reading the way of Pook. I understood his view of improving myself...
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    How long can you go without masturbating?

    I'm doing my bit to keep this thread alive. Only hours from making it 7 days, I gave in. And it must've opened up a flood of hormones cuz less than 12 hours later I gave in again. As others did, over the last 7 days I noticed some things: Women started saying hi to me for no other...
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    trouble talking in groups

    yes yes, any place where I'm in a group. Whether its out in public or in private settings.
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    trouble talking in groups

    when I'm out at a restaurant or someplace with friends, and we're just sitting there, I have real trouble participating in group discussions. I just sorta clam up. When we're up doing something, I can usually participate a little more, but, when just sitting around, I'm always the quiet one...
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    Confidence fluctuation

    your mind is resisting the change, trying to get back to what it considers "normal and safe" ie. Mr Small and Powerless. Its normal. Best thing to do is focus on whats important to you, and to do well. When you do that, you'll have the type of confidence women like. You won't care if a girl...
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    what makes us choke?

    That's not true, and it sounds like an excuse you use to not try with those women. No. Pretending is no good. I want to be genuine. I don't want to get in her pants until after I know I like her anyways. The leverage idea sounds like a mind trick. I'm discovering that they are only short...
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    what makes us choke?

    We've all been there. You're just minding your own business and suddently you see a beautiful woman you just have to meet. But you don't, instead you just keep on walking/sitting. You choke. What is going through our minds when we choke? Are we giving the girl too much importance? Are we...
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    life is empty

    thanks for all the advice, but I think Walden made the best point. My life hasn't changed much lately because I haven't done anything to make it change. Take today for example. Went out to the bookstore, and for some reason there was a gorgeous girl in there. My mind was screaming 'say hi'...
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    life is empty

    I've decided just to try to take it as it comes, starting off with having a healthy dinner. My mood may very well be coming from my unhealthy eating and sleeping habits. I also got rid of all my porn. I'm no prude, but ultimately porn is degrading to everyone involved (especially the...
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