Recent content by 4evehayoung

I think I'm going to try it without shaving and see how it goes. I really don't want to unless It's an obvious obstacle. What do you think about having my own place to go to? As you know the wife green lighted me to meet and have sex with other women but does not care to have me entertaining...

So I've been doing some foundation work like upgrading my wardrobe, trying new hair cuts, new cologne, and setting up my "love shack. I have been wondering about shaving my balls or not. 25 years ago guys did not even think of doing that, and thought that hair and masculinity go together -...

Got it, thanks

OK, thanks. How does one send a private message?

Hi Guru, what does PM mean? I'm kind of new here (posted 1 thread). I would like to take you up on some advice.

Your SMV is still rising and her's is rapidly declining. Leave raising someone else's kids to the Betas. You're in the driver's seat. For the next 10 years spin some plates, educate yourself on risk management with dating and marriage, read,read,read and really understand what's at stake. You...

Well said Guru, well said. That magically sums it up.

My mom was a ballroom dance instructor and pro competitor her entire life and was always hosting dances for her classes. You are right about chicks outnumbering guys in that arena. That was a fun time before I got married and easy pickings. Ballroom dancing is still popular and my recent...

"Anthropologists believe Neanderthals perished in part because they failed to incorporate both male and female traits into their culture. They didn't divide tasks and problems along gender lines. Everyone hunted, everyone gathered, everyone reared the babies. Homo sapiens, on the other hand...

I'm not giving up hope, winners never quit-quitters never win. I'm doing my best

Thanks again all, I do want to mention that I realize a change in lifestyle is in order. I have been overhauling my wardrobe, trying out new colognes, etc., since last summer. I also realize this is not going to happen overnight and I need to spend time and $$ to be successful at this. I'm...

I am not sure what gives you the idea that I want to check out. The whole concept behind this thread was to get feedback from the forum on the possibility of me dating and being married working. I was looking to see if anyone else has tried this because I have heard of "open" or...

No doubt what GHF said, marriage for men, in the end, is a losing proposition - a no win situation. Just by it's very nature it goes against all biological laws. It's like selling your soul when you say "I do". The wife ends up being the pleasure giver or "dries up" with the slip of the...

Well there is no earth shattering news following the weekend of talks. She still says it's OK for me to date/find sex. What she is unsure of is what's going to happen if/when I do hook up. The uncertainty that I would leave her or neglect my responsibilities to our family and spend a lot of...

I agree about lack of sex is a symptom because for the most part she has provide me with good sex for over 20 years whenever I asked. She always claimed that sex wasn't important to her (never got physical pleasure - orgasms) but was willing to keep me happy. We had regular "date nights" and I...