Recent content by 1utfan1

Yes, there are alot of posts that echo the 'don't date women with kids'. I do agree that a good portion of women with children are looking for someone to either take care of them or be a safety net. But there are plenty of women with no kids that look for the same thing. And i agree with an...

Thanks guys, that helps. Yes, ride with it being friends is great advice. Thanks.

Hello mature forum. I've been a lurker and poster here for a few years now. I find myself in an odd situation. I won't go into detail on this post. Basically, i've date this girl for about 2 years. broke up twice. When we broke up recently my gut told me it was the right thing. fast...

This simple answer is TIME. The thing that got me past 'her' was finally realizing that based on what happened, I can never take her back and keep my self respect. This of course is situation specific.

I would pull back from this girl. I wouldn't send her a message back via text message. And definatley not the 'other girl' message you mentioned. If she calls you while she's out of town. Chit chat for a minute or so but ask if you can talk to her later (or when she gets back into town)...

#3, #5, #6 are KEY points when dealing with hotties who know it. I learned this the hard way. Distance yourself some. Definatley don't call back right away. And most definatley DON"T ever ask about the relationship/love/girlfriend whatever question to her. She NEEDS to bring it up...

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: married women I should have added that if your dating a married women it's a good bet she'll cheat on you. Why anyone would want to date a married women I don't know. I was essentially agreeing with you that why do you have to date them...I was saying don't expect...

Re: Re: Re: Re: married women In my original post i said: "If all your in it for is a F*ck then hey go for it. If you get shot by the hubby I won't shed a tear for you. "

Re: Re: married women I'd look at myself AND next her. Back to the subject though, I agree to the extent of why would you bother with a married women. Goes with the rule, if she cheats on her hubby she'll cheat on you. If all your in it for is a F*ck then hey go for it. If you get shot...

Hey Mahon, been awhile. While I think B's suggestion is very funny. I believe that would be 'stooping to their level' and I know your above that. I wouldn't even consider this guy a friend. Why do you even hang out with him? I wouldn't even do anything back and forget about them. hang out...

Try an action date for a 2nd date. Then it doesn't put so much emphasis on having a discussion. As far as the 1st girl you described. It just sounds like she got pi$$ed because you didn't let her manhandle you in the video store and she may not be used to being told 'no'. At least NO in...

Thank god he's got a DJ to help mentor him through.

How much do you tell them about yourself during the first date? I've found it best to keep them talking about them. When they ask me questions about myself I keep them brief and not an indepth account of myself. That whole mystery thing. Do you ask them out for a 2nd date like the next day...