“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Steroids and why you started using them

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Tell us your Story why and at what Age you started taking Steroids. Are you satisfied with the results? Or any regrets?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Tell us your Story why and at what Age you started taking Steroids. Are you satisfied with the results? Or any regrets?
For the purpose of your question do you view trt as steroids ? why or why not ??
 

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For the purpose of your question do you view trt as steroids ? why or why not ??
It is on its own, but I'm not judging anyone. If you're on TRT, feel free to talk about it openly
 

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Black jeans lol. Dont need that shyte.

For real tho; my entire life I got ripped if I simply worked hard...I train mostly to be efficient with my ( physical) labour, and secondly to look good in a t-shirt/ to drop her jaw when I undress.

IMHO being extremely buff is a sign that a man is cheating. It simply looks unnatural.
 

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What makes you assume Im gonna start Steroids? Im not planning any, but Im curious about your experiences
Over the last week or so, you seem to be indecisive about what you want to do, and you aren't happy with what you're doing right now.

You seem to be in a state of "flux".

I'm just advising against it if you're asking this question because you're curious about getting started.
 

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Over the last week or so, you seem to be indecisive about what you want to do, and you aren't happy with what you're doing right now.

You seem to be in a state of "flux".

I'm just advising against it if you're asking this question because you're curious about getting started.
I understand your concern, I actually gave an Update about it, dont know whether you received the notification or not. Im so far not happy with academia, but thats not something that would get me into Steroids, in reality I actually hide my physique in classes, because it does more harm. then good, it makes others Insecure, have had that experience pretty often.
 
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Can you describe how you've experienced this?
Sure. The Guys get more competitive, try out character assassination, harm your social status, spreading lies and rumors and form groups to apply that pressure on you. Remember how i mentioned how competitive the University in itself is? It already induces stress on others, but many of them deal with the stress in inefficient ways, it is like they are more impulsive or more and more likely to act on their subconscious. I once revealed my Physique in the first classes, few guys start to look at you with big eyes and start to act weird around you even if you appear friendly and nice. Some will befriend you only, because you are Handsome and Muscular, that befriending you will help them to get girls and up their social status.
Girls look at you that way too but its different f.e its looking at you with big wide eyes, like a deer in the headlight with their sparkling eyes and they nod along with everything what i say and comply with literally everything I say, the guys then in the Group get insecure and try to embarrass me or try to make me insecure, or just not agree with my Point even though its backed up by common sense, facts and data, where they even got called out from Professors. They just do it because they want to win over status. Imagine you are surrounded by hot girls and the guys notice, they believe it makes them look strong when they win against you in whatever ridiculous ways.
 

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If they were not a problem for hair, I would try them and cycle often according to the most studied protocols.
 

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It is on its own, but I'm not judging anyone. If you're on TRT, feel free to talk about it openly

You probably already know a bit about this — YouTube, AI, gym talk, all that.


Like most things that actually matter… it depends.


Some guys just get dealt a rough hand genetically. Not their fault. You can eat clean, train hard, do everything “right,” and still feel off because the chemistry just isn’t there.


At the same time, a lot of these compounds people talk about are actually used medically for real issues and can be very effective when used properly.


If a guy has low T — at any age — and he’s already put in the work (diet, gym, sleep), then yeah… it makes sense to address it.


The difference can be massive. Not a small upgrade — more like stepping into a different version of yourself.


Low T doesn’t just mess with your physique. It hits your head — motivation, clarity, drive. Hard to explain unless you’ve felt both sides of it.


TRT is basically bringing you back to baseline — what your body and brain need to run properly.


Going way above that is a different story. Yeah, more muscle, but you’re also signing up for side effects. And there are other compounds that push things even further, with bigger trade-offs to match.


If you don’t actually need it, don’t jump on it just to try and turn into the Hulk. That’s a different path with a different set of consequences.


If you’ve got low T on bloodwork AND you feel it, TRT can be a huge quality-of-life upgrade.


Not hype.
Not placebo.
Real change.


And one thing people overlook is that low T isn’t just an “old guy problem.”


It’s more common with age, sure, but it can show up earlier too.
 

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Sure. The Guys get more competitive, try out character assassination, harm your social status, spreading lies and rumors and form groups to apply that pressure on you. Remember how i mentioned how competitive the University in itself is? It already induces stress on others, but many of them deal with the stress in inefficient ways, it is like they are more impulsive or more and more likely to act on their subconscious. I once revealed my Physique in the first classes, few guys start to look at you with big eyes and start to act weird around you even if you appear friendly and nice. Some will befriend you only, because you are Handsome and Muscular, that befriending you will help them to get girls and up their social status.
Girls look at you that way too but its different f.e its looking at you with big wide eyes, like a deer in the headlight with their sparkling eyes and they nod along with everything what i say and comply with literally everything I say, the guys then in the Group get insecure and try to embarrass me or try to make me insecure, or just not agree with my Point even though its backed up by common sense, facts and data, where they even got called out from Professors. They just do it because they want to win over status. Imagine you are surrounded by hot girls and the guys notice, they believe it makes them look strong when they win against you in whatever ridiculous ways.
I think you might have a bit of an inflated sense of self.

I'm a relatively big guy, and although I get treated differently at times, guys aren't out to get me, and women aren't all easy marks.

Given this, roid rage is a thing, and if you're self-conscious about how others may or may not perceive you, you may act out based on those assumptions.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Not actually a steroid, but HGH was very popular among mma guys I knew. I could tell within a minute or two of grappling who was on it. It's like wrestling a horse, crazy strength. It was actually really good practice for jiu-jitsu, because you're supposed to re-direct force and not try to oppose it.
 

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I think you might have a bit of an inflated sense of self.

I'm a relatively big guy, and although I get treated differently at times, guys aren't out to get me, and women aren't all easy marks.

Given this, roid rage is a thing, and if you're self-conscious about how others may or may not perceive you, you may act out based on those assumptions.
No, not really, I would rate myself, a few points higher then you in the looks department tbh. How tall are you? In the following: Im referring to academia and not general life, woman arent all easy marks in general, I know that, I actually posted a Video about this, but in my case they are, because the guys were stupid enough to lower their status and inflate mine because of their behavior + all other girls see how other girls are attracted to me in class. I do get woman who play hard to get, pretend they dont like me and so on.

Im also familiar that roids can amplify your behavior, but the truth is though, the People who know me in realife, actually understand what a truthful speaker Im, not many can handle this one. Id consider only trt, for medical reasons which isn't the case right now
 
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I will never take steroids or testosterone

but I will say that guys that do take these drugs poison the well. As any dummy woman that comes into contact with you is toxified by the crazy drugs you take, she absorbs it and it confuses her hormones permanently, like twisted addicts

it’s like a chemical relationship ruiner that spans everyone for the lifespan of the female but also any male suiter she ever encounters
 

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I will never take steroids or testosterone

but I will say that guys that do take these drugs poison the well. As any dummy woman that comes into contact with you is toxified by the crazy drugs you take, she absorbs it and it confuses her hormones permanently, like twisted addicts

it’s like a chemical relationship ruiner that spans everyone for the lifespan of the female but also any male suiter she ever encounters
Thats not true though, except for gel based topical applied steroids. I mean at some Point your hormones can get messed up for whatever reasons despite doing things right, thats where medical intervention makes it indispensable.
 

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It’s the same way when transgender (or whatever else they are named) when they take hormone blockers or add hormones to augment their gender, it’s toxic to be anywhere near those people. Don’t sit where they were sitting. Don’t even be near them because it disrupts others hormone exchanges and health. I’m pretty sure of it.

Likewise when a woman screws a guy souped up on steroids or he’s cranked up on testosterone, it’s going to affect her too. It tricks her nervous system. She will think all men are not measuring up unless they are also drugged up on testosterone products.

it poisons the well. Sure it’s sorta harsh the way I worded it but it is true. I’m certain the same applies if it was an experiment with mice or rats or monkeys. It totally disrupts everyone around them to be on such drugs. It’s like how chemotherapy patients are supposed to quarantine themselves away from loved ones because it’s harmful to be exposed to someone that had radiation exposure

this is just the reality of today. Even with recreational drugs nowadays there are drugs a hundred times as potent as fentanyl. It’s so strong you can overdose just by touching a door handle you can overdose. And the drugs are being modified at a more rapid pace then ever so it’s all just a wild and frankly dangerous experiment, including testosterone booster shots
 
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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