As far as the original intent, I was only there to get what she wanted to give me. Basically, get it out of the way and continue to distance myself. I didn't expect her tell me that she missed me or back pedal on her earlier statements. On top of that, it was late and I was beat. Not a good time to try and make moves. I'm not in any hurry. If she misses me now and this is worth my time, she will still miss me and act accordingly. A flat rejection is not a situation where I think its a good idea to to be a pushover and give her an express pass into my world again. Its her turn to rebuild a bridge if she wants to be more than friends. If she doesn't make the effort, I'll just stay on the route that I'm on. I'm not desperate. If its just games, I should know, soon enough. I actually had to decline her invite as I did already have something going on. Oh well.