Fruitbat
Master Don Juan
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Howdy Folks,
i joined this forum following a personal tragedy which included a divorce- self instigated.
I came here to sharpen the saw with my dating game and also let off steam. I never made any pretences - I’m not a casanova, I’ve had a respectable history, but I wasn’t here to “bang p00n”. I actually did in the process of trying to start a family and a legacy and that was a lot of fun!
I became a father 2 days ago and we are a happy trio. I’m happier than I’ve ever been and some of you one day will do the same. Some of you will have done it. Some of you may be post divorce and separated. Perhaps that will be me one day, perhaps I’ll be back. Who knows? Perhaps I’ll be the one who leave. You never know the future.
I just wanted to say thanks to some of you guys who helped me through my darkest times and gave good, sound advice. I’m well beyond the thrill of the chase but this forum wasn’t always about the objective of girls, girls girls - often it’s about CRAFTING THE MAN who gets the women he wants, and those things are separate but linked. I’m nobody to give advice but I found working on the man, the strategy, was always more important than working on the situation with the girl, the tactics. Strategy beats tactics and I’d urge anyone struggling to work on themselves, not work on the women in your life. They’ll come if you’re up together and in good shape both mentally and physically.
So, this is kind of me signing off. It’s been a fun 6 years and I’m not deleting my account so I may return, but I got what I came here for. I’ve no need to be here, and being honest, most of you don’t want advice from a man who wanted to wife up and have kids!
thanks for all your help and I wish you all well.
Fruity
i joined this forum following a personal tragedy which included a divorce- self instigated.
I came here to sharpen the saw with my dating game and also let off steam. I never made any pretences - I’m not a casanova, I’ve had a respectable history, but I wasn’t here to “bang p00n”. I actually did in the process of trying to start a family and a legacy and that was a lot of fun!
I became a father 2 days ago and we are a happy trio. I’m happier than I’ve ever been and some of you one day will do the same. Some of you will have done it. Some of you may be post divorce and separated. Perhaps that will be me one day, perhaps I’ll be back. Who knows? Perhaps I’ll be the one who leave. You never know the future.
I just wanted to say thanks to some of you guys who helped me through my darkest times and gave good, sound advice. I’m well beyond the thrill of the chase but this forum wasn’t always about the objective of girls, girls girls - often it’s about CRAFTING THE MAN who gets the women he wants, and those things are separate but linked. I’m nobody to give advice but I found working on the man, the strategy, was always more important than working on the situation with the girl, the tactics. Strategy beats tactics and I’d urge anyone struggling to work on themselves, not work on the women in your life. They’ll come if you’re up together and in good shape both mentally and physically.
So, this is kind of me signing off. It’s been a fun 6 years and I’m not deleting my account so I may return, but I got what I came here for. I’ve no need to be here, and being honest, most of you don’t want advice from a man who wanted to wife up and have kids!
thanks for all your help and I wish you all well.
Fruity