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Video of girl admitting that they have self love issues ( never take rejection personal)

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This chick says something that I have long suspected. Many girls reject dudes because the guys are too high vibration. Water seeks its own level. If a girl doesn't resonate with you on a spiritual and mental level she will unconsciously reject you. This is not a personal thing. It doest mean that you are lame or did something wrong. You guys are just not on the same level and it intimidates her. If a girls heart is fill with self hate, darkness, bitterness and narcissism she will not be able to be around a person that is the opposite. She may use that guy but she will be afraid to connect because it is a reflection of too much emotional work she needs to do. Hypergamy in women is real but so is grabbing the low hanging fruit.

She also said something else. Some girls just have bad taste. Thats why we should never take rejection personally. Some girls have NO CLUE as to what a man is. Modern women are not an objective measure of your worth as a man. Their taste in men is very random and based on all types of confusion and trauma. Heck many of them are so confused they date dike lesbians. If thats not confusion then I don't know what is. Anyways kudos to this chick in the video she is self aware. She states that she has been getting better in the self love department and because of this has dated more loving men.
 

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I bet going along with the herd or the group think compounds these issues. They truly do have independent thoughts and constantly crush them in order to be in alignment with the herd.
 

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How can you see someone's spritiual and mental level just after meeting them ?

This girl is just using pretty words to disguis relality: she rejected a dude because he was needy, but she doesn't want to admit she dumped him because of that... that would make her look like a bad person, you know
This has nothing to do with spirituality or mental condition: if you're free, you're worthless
Same goes for the example with her male friend: he goes on dinner with a chick and at the end he tells her he wants to see her again, and she suddenly backs off ... what a surpise... must be bad taste huh ? ...lol that's just hamstering to cuz he's too needy

Taking advice from women is pointless, most of them don't themself what they want and have low understanding of their nature

Everything she said is pure bull****
 

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Don't know how you can stand listening to this woman speaking... I could handle around two minutes. How the fvck do you watch this clip, and get anything out of it.
 

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Ofc women lack self love and have bad taste on dating apps yet hot looking guys scores big on tinder...I guess they forget their internal problem near pumped pecs and tight abs.

I fully support the simple version when it comes of this, they go for the best possible deal and slowly decrease their standards till it matches, if they have to get down a certain level they would rather get a cat...its really that simple.
 
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Guys go to clip 12:48mins

This chick says something that I have long suspected. Many girls reject dudes because the guys are too high vibration. Water seeks its own level. If a girl doesn't resonate with you on a spiritual and mental level she will unconsciously reject you. This is not a personal thing. It doest mean that you are lame or did something wrong. You guys are just not on the same level and it intimidates her. If a girls heart is fill with self hate, darkness, bitterness and narcissism she will not be able to be around a person that is the opposite. She may use that guy but she will be afraid to connect because it is a reflection of too much emotional work she needs to do. Hypergamy in women is real but so is grabbing the low hanging fruit.

She also said something else. Some girls just have bad taste. Thats why we should never take rejection personally. Some girls have NO CLUE as to what a man is. Modern women are not an objective measure of your worth as a man. Their taste in men is very random and based on all types of confusion and trauma. Heck many of them are so confused they date dike lesbians. If thats not confusion then I don't know what is. Anyways kudos to this chick in the video she is self aware. She states that she has been getting better in the self love department and because of this has dated more loving men.
Thats not the only issue with women. A predisposition to cratering SMV and bulking season. Oh and lera not forget nagging.

Lulz @ monogamy.
 

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yeah because you can see the mental and spirity(bleh) level on a dating app, or you could undertand the simple concept of you are not posting your better pics, in the end its how hot you look, you really think she will care about your mental lvl or spiritual if she finds you hot? that is just a thing woman say to rationalize they doing without looking like a ***** or a bad woman.

we always say here don't consider what woman say and only consider her actions, don't matter if she tells she loves you, if she never closes her legs.

so I really don't undertand why most guys here mention, but she said this, its like you guys are looking for a validation for your behavior and a excuse for not improving it
 

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You'll learn otherwise when you see women monkey branch way down in every way.
Last year I saw this live in the most dramatic sense yet. I couldn't believe my brother's girlfriend's sister was pregnant from... that guy? I still can't answer why.
 

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Low self esteem. They have hypergamy so they want the best guy but they only truly feel comfortable with the guy they "deserve", like in Casino. A valuable guy treating a woman that views herself as worthless as if she is valuable is a fraud she cannot maintain for long.
If that theory is what applies in this case I wonder what rid her of her selfesteem, because she looks great and she seemed cool. Some ex must have really done it in for her. The discrepancy is just so blatant.

I think we underestimate just how poor and neurotic womens' selfesteems are. It's not the first time I see this, and imo I just saw it again with another girl I've known for a long time, but it's the least understandable case to me.
 

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How can you see someone's spritiual and mental level just after meeting them ?
Actually, they do. At least the ones with higher value.
The women who have been abused, or not so attractive, don't show it as quickly, because they are a bit more desperate for a connection.
It's how they are, it's a natural trait. One of those deals where they know within 10 seconds if we have the right vibe, whether they think we are their cup of tea or not. It's on a subconscious level.

We are the same way in our selection of women, but on a different level.
It helps to game them when they are alone, as opposed to when they are with someone who they consider an influence on them.
 

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Low self esteem. They have hypergamy so they want the best guy but they only truly feel comfortable with the guy they "deserve", like in Casino. A valuable guy treating a woman that views herself as worthless as if she is valuable is a fraud she cannot maintain for long.
So she feels like shyt from recieving this valuable attention. How does she treat "valueable" guy?
 

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They are but thats later on in the relationship when you get attached and they get disgusted lol.
Ahh.... Their verbal and physical queue gratefulness is incredible but akin to "love bombing" in a narc. Its "charm" but not followed by action. They get disgusted from you continuing to help them out and they know they dont deserve it.
 
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