when she start to read "romance" novels....?

[jhonny9546]

Hi there!
A friend of mine asked me to find a way to help.

His 6 year girlfriend really like reading. She is mostly into romance novels, the ones without sex scenes on, which tells about love, the bluepill love we all know. But 3 months ago She suddenly started to read romance novels about sex (like 50 shades, but even more perverse material). So ofc my friend asked Her why She really like those perverse material, and She stated that She really like those novels, for the "romance" present in it.

So, He was trusting her until He found out Her masturbating her really more often than usual .. and also made my friend to question himself, "why She's reading this material, and do n't ask me to satisfy those fantasies She read when We do I have sex?". He also started to nice that she's more "absent".

The suspect
He has only a suspect which is the following: 4/5 months ago, a new guy entered her workplace. This guy is not attractive at all, but he was a childhood friend of her. We are pretty sure that they haven't done anything before, or now, or even touched each other in the workplace, because there is another guy, a friend of us who works there, who has confirmed this to us. But what our friend started to notice is that She increased opportunities to see him at work, such as asking for help with trivial problems. Again, we are sure they haven't even touched...

Coming back to my friend, I really don't know what to say in order to help him in a good way.. So I would like to discuss here on the forum. My Friends it's in a good 6 years LTR, this girl it's really awesome, they have even a child of 1 year, and He's an alpha male. But even an alpha male have this problems.

 

[Money & Muscle]

Alpha Males don't exist, and they certainly wouldn't care if a chick was getting her rocks off and being distant.

Your friend's girl is flicking the bean and reading smut. So what? Your friend should be a good lad and help her out. She's experiencing a fantasy, that's it.

But he could always go be a beta fvck and get paranoid about this orbiter, which will drive her into his fat arms, too.

 

[Fruitbat]

Agreed. Dude watches porn. Does this suddenly mean he’s lusting after some woman at work? No.

Going out all the time is a reason to suspect. Being shady about phone is a reason to suspect. Increased or decreased or changed sex life is a reason to suspect. Thankfully I’ve never had this but I vet women primarily for loyalty and not much else.

Oh, and another thing. I got this wrong when I was younger. When a woman talks about a guy to you, it’s almost certain she is not banging him. If you were banging a side chick you would NEVER bring her up with your woman.

90% of times the “guy at work” is just a **** test/ jealousy thing.

like mafia hits, the ones that hurt you you never see coming.

 

[jhonny9546]

Your friend should be a good lad and help her out. She's experiencing a fantasy, that's it.

Exactly why I'm asking how to help him, since He asked for advice, but I thought I could not really be helpful at this point.
What do you mean with experiencing a fantasy?

 

[Money & Muscle]

Exactly why I'm asking how to help him, since He asked for advice, but I thought I could not really be helpful at this point.
What do you mean with experiencing a fantasy?

Men watch p*rn, women read it.
Men are visual, women are in it for the experience.

Ever realize that most **** kinks are Men doing something to Women? I don't particularly find spanking that sexy, but my wife does. I don't have a thing for tying my wife up, but she does. Because it's not about my experience - it's about hers. You and your friend should learn more about what professional Doms do and why, it's pretty enlightening. The Natural Lifestyle on YouTube does a good job of this in some videos.

She's experiencing a fantasy. If you want more information on it, there's a book My Secret Garden by Nancy Grace that goes into a lot of detail. Basically, all modern p*rn plots are based off women's fantasies.

 

[Mike32ct]

Books are not as bad as video P.

 

[jhonny9546]

My Secret Garden by Nancy Grace

This? (are there other books which talk about this topic)?

Btw, why are woman claiming about "being abused" and then, by their nature, those woman are being in fantasies about the same stuff?

 

[Money & Muscle]

This? (are there other books which talk about this topic)?

Yeah, that book - I mixed up my author names.

why are woman claiming about "being abused" and then, by their nature, those woman are being in fantasies about the same stuff?

Sounds like some reading will be good for you.

 

[jhonny9546]

Sounds like some reading will be good for you.

Sounds like just right!
That book it's just eye opening on what female nature brings on the table.
Are there other books like that? non ontly on this specific subject