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What % of women give oral sex?

mr. kennedy

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Whenever you're with a woman, do you assume she gives oral sex? Would you dump a woman that does not?

Do you give oral first or wait for her to give you a blow?
 

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The reason I ask is because the last 2 girls I met (they were more the girls next door type) didn't give head. Not sure if it's simply because they were more conservative or it's something I'm not doing.

I never give oral so maybe in this feminist era they are expecting it from me first.
 

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Some women like giving it some don't. The ones that don't.....won't, unless they want to please you. If you continue to have sex with them, giving them orgasms, without them having to give you head, then they won't feel a reason to.

Tell them you want it. If they say they won't then, stop having sex with them. Might take some discipline on your part, but that usually does the trick. They'll give in if they want to have sex with you.

I find the ones that don't initiate it on their own by the second or third time we have sex, are the same girls that expect the guy to pay for every dinner and can't seem to figure out why they're bad at relationships. They're selfish and believe it's the guys job to please them.

EDIT: I was seeing a girl for a while, and she flat out told me she wouldn't give blow jobs (I believe it was due to some type of bad experience when she was younger :/ ) But in turn, she wouldn't allow me to go down on her, because she didn't want me to expect a BJ. So she wasn't being selfish there. But that was an exception to the rule.
 

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The problem is not the percentage of women which do oral sex only but also the percentage that gives it to you.

Many women keep such things only for the guys they like very much, and the same I do, many times I bang ordinary girls just to for the sex and to release and to confirm myself that I can score, those girls dont have their pvssy licked.

I lick the pvssy only to the girls I really like to make sure they stick around and that they return the favour, so I suppose they do the same.

So its not about if someone gives or not oral sex but the conditions behind it, Im sure many girls which give head to the cool club promoter wouldnt do it to their good guy boyfriend later on.
 
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mr. kennedy said:
Whenever you're with a woman, do you assume she gives oral sex? Would you dump a woman that does not?

Do you give oral first or wait for her to give you a blow?
Before I moved to Thailand I had a cute girlfriend. We lived together. She loved getting her ***** licked and getting ****ed hard but barely gave head. I asked her time and time again why she didn't get into it and she always said it made her gag, it hurt her mouth, and she didn't like the taste of ***. She would beg me to lick her snatch though. Eventually it got to be too much for me.

Remember this one thought - are you willing to stay in a relationship where a woman doesn't give head? If you end up marrying the chick, that means unless you cheat or get her to "allow" you to get head from elsewhere, you'll never get head again in your life. That was too much for me to handle. She was a good woman but I just couldn't stay with her. :cuss:

On another note...those who do suck ****, which are most IMO, need to at least attempt to gobble the goo. They can cheat, they can spit it out, whatever, but they need to take it. Those who get into it receive bonus/boner points. :cheer:
 

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with the right guy, amost 100% of them
 

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100% over the age of 18.

Would I dump a woman who wouldn't, yes 100% of the time. I would laugh my head off at her. I am not over keen on going down on women but it's worth bringing her joy for the own joy of watching her gag and drool down my nob!

There are only a few things I wouldn't do for a girl to get her off, and I expect a woman to do the same for me.

I do get kind of annoyed at the amount of women who wont take it up the backdoor though. It can't be that difficult considering the sheer number of tiny chicks who will do it pretty easily with an enormous d1ck for money on video, and I have had GFs who did it so I know it isn't that painful if done properly and correctly. I am quite an enthusiast for this activity with chicks but there are lots who wont even consider it and find it dirty. I wouldn't dump a chick for not doing this, but if a chick allowed me my dirty pleasure regularly this would be a massive bonus and win her many points....only ever had 1 gf who did this regularly though....

Annoyed at the "let me do it to you and I'll do it line". It's NOT the same. The other one which annoys me is "it's just because of porn". When will women understand that porn in the main, reflects male desires rather than dictating our desires to us.
 

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At a guess I'd say 95% do it. Total guess.

But whatever percentage do it, that's still a LOT of women - and if a woman won't give head, it also says a lot about her personality (unwillingness to experiment, easily freaked/grossed out etc) and so any woman who doesn't give head isn't going to make a good partner (for me, anyway) because I don't like those traits.
 

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I can't remember the last time a girl didn't wanna give me head. If ever. My experience is that they love it. You should be a good head reciever as well....let her know verbally when its good. They love that and will always work for that.
 

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my theory: All girls give head
 

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Not all women give oral sex. I have slept with girls who thought it was disgusting - these are the same ones who never fully embrace sex, and interestingly, they are the ones who have a hard time achieving an orgasm. When they do, the orgasm isn't strong. See how important the psychological part is.

I also slept with a feminist (ahem) who didn't do oral sex on principle, because it was demeaning to women, etc. She also had this long hair growing on one breast that she for some reason didn't pull out. Probably because "she shouldn't have to".

Sleeping with a feminist will either get you machine-like sex ("Because it's just a biological need, nothing special" - and these feminists will give oral sex) where she is likely to keep her eyes open at all times, or reluctant sex where she prides herself on withholding some things. Also, feminists learn that the man should formally ask before penetration, otherwise it is rape. That girl for example, when I didn't ask, still said "Yes, you may" even though I hadn't said anything. Weird but true. But I digress.
 

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Not all of them do...

But the bigger problem is finding hot ones who are actually really good at it...


A very small percentage are actually really good at it...unless we are talking about fat girls of course...for some reason, they are almost always really good at it...maybe they are just extra hungry haha...but it's worthless if they aren't that good at it...teeth hitting shaft too much focusing on the tip not being about to smoothly go up and down fast and forceful enough....not doing the extra stuff......very few are actually very good...most of the time i will stop them halfway and say i am not in the mood for it because most of them are just so so at doing it...
 

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Wolfgang D said:
I also slept with a feminist (ahem) who didn't do oral sex on principle, because it was demeaning to women, etc. She also had this long hair growing on one breast that she for some reason didn't pull out. Probably because "she shouldn't have to".

Sleeping with a feminist will either get you machine-like sex ("Because it's just a biological need, nothing special" - and these feminists will give oral sex) where she is likely to keep her eyes open at all times, or reluctant sex where she prides herself on withholding some things. Also, feminists learn that the man should formally ask before penetration, otherwise it is rape. That girl for example, when I didn't ask, still said "Yes, you may" even though I hadn't said anything. Weird but true. But I digress.
LOL!!

That's hilarious. Hopefully you didn't go back for seconds on that one. Feminists, at least she wasn't BPD. Only thing I can imagine worse than a feminist. I can handle feminists though, but there aren't not too many hot ones.

I sucked on a chicks boobs in high school who had a few long strands of hair coming out of her nipples, she was pretty hot too. The whole time I was thinking: why have you not plucked these?? haha. She was a famous "virgin" of the high school. I gave it a shot but to no avail. BUT, in keeping on the topic of this thread...yes, she did give me a blow job ;)
 
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