I was wondering if anyone else has the same problem as me, or if they have ever had it. Ive been told that im pretty good looking, though I may need to work on my style a little. I used to be the kind of guy that girls are interested in until I open my mouth. Anyways, Ive been improving lately but...I still run into some problems. Ive extremely improved my first impressions and am getting better with the ****y funny/playful/confidence type thing. It seems to me like im really the kind of guy a girl would want. I think I can cause attraction in most girls, but then somehow Ill screw it up. They'll start giving me IOIs and all, then, for some reason, its like it all just gets screwed up. I especially have trouble in big social gatherings, I guess I could be considered popular, Im good friends with all of the popular people, but it seems I do better in one on one conversations with people. So in a big group its like im not even heard sometimes, and all the girls will be all over my friends instead. But if its just me and a girl, I do so much better. Its like im doing all of the right things and just not getting the results I expect. Ive def. gotten a lot better with the girls, though I still have a lot improving to do obviously. Some help would be awesome.
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