This conversation stuff really works!

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  1. meathead

    meathead Don Juan

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    Experience for me, advice for you.

    The story goes like this: I went out tonight with a few of my female friends (it's great to have female friends, by the way) and they brought along a friend of theirs who I had only met one time before. I didn't have a great amount of interest in this girl, but I decided that she would be great for practicing my DJ skills on. I didn't realize how powerful this material can be.

    On the way back home, I started talking to her with the serious intent of refining my skills. As is advised on this board, she was the subject of the conversation, and when the topics moved away from her, I tried to find a way to at least relate them to her, if not move her back to being the main subject. I don't remember how we started talking, but once we did, I couldn't stop. Maybe I've learned a lot, or maybe I was too focused on practicing, but the result was remarkable. In about 20 minutes, she went from showing no interest in me to giving signals like it was her job.

    So there are two lessons here. First, when it comes to talking to girls, talk to them about them. It's actually quite easy, because most of the time, they can't shut up about themselves. The second lesson is to practice. Even if you find a girl you're not interested in, as I did tonight, practice talking to her. Reading the posts here is great, but it's even better when you put when you learn into action.

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  2. DJ de Florida

    DJ de Florida Master Don Juan

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    Exactly. It is all about being charming (making the person feel good about themselves.) This works in the workplace with the boss, with guys at the gym, etc.



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    1) Progress always involves risk: you can't steal second base and keep your foot on first.

    2) Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.

    3) You never really lose until you stop trying.
     
  3. HB_Hunter

    HB_Hunter Senior Don Juan

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    Well, sometimes it's just so hard to do so , especially when ur all stressed out , u keep on testin urself , u can't concentrate and all that . what always bring me dead is when i feel like im clueless or not passionate , no words to say etc... this really hurts especially if u used to be a charmin ,pua
    or like u can't express urself , don't wait for her to answer , don't know when to get personal n ask her questions ....****.


    i used to have this curiosity thing when im dealin with gals about what they like , need , hate etc.... i used to echo thier values but now i think that i lost track or not like before ( is it really true) can u just become like u were before gettin to this site?? or that's just in my mind (self fulfillin prophecy) anyways, i won't eva give up...what r ur thoughts Dj's??
     
  4. Neophyte

    Neophyte Master Don Juan

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    meathead,

    Perfect! It's a given in theory many times on this board and now you found the practical answer.

    Keep up the good work!

    Cya,
    Neo
     
  5. Serpent

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    Sounds remarkable. Only a conversation - first time - no hint of kino?
     
  6. IntermediateDonJuaner

    IntermediateDonJuaner Master Don Juan

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    I have to agree with this one. Conversation is one of my best weapons in the list and it can work out to your advantage if you use it properly.

    Basically, conversation is all about flirting. You can be the most homely person on earth but if you master the art of flirting, you can have some serious game here.

    Anyway, keep up the good work,meathead!
     
  7. Don the Legend

    Don the Legend Master Don Juan

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    Great job Meathead!

    Thanks for the tip.

    Legend
     
  8. meathead

    meathead Don Juan

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    Serpent,

    That's one hell of a question you bring up: kino. There certainly is a lot of talk about it on this board. To answer your question, I didn't use it at all. It never really crossed my mind, but for this girl, I was just practicing my conversation skills on her. Now that you bring it up, it makes me wonder what kind of an effect kino would have had on her.

    Maybe I should've tested it on her, to see what kind of an effect it would've had. I've read a lot about it, but there are so many things that work in theory but not in practice. So maybe next time I talk to a girl, I'll try some kino, and see how it works, because that's the true test.

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  9. IntermediateDonJuaner

    IntermediateDonJuaner Master Don Juan

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    Here's my idea on this. There are many conflicting ideas here about kino. Some said do kino,some will say no.

    For example,Pook said kino is good but Anti-Dump doesn't really agree with it. It's not that he is going against it but he just doesn't believe in kino. Here's a test to find out, since many said do kino now while some said do kino later, perhaps you should do this, After getting her number and setting up an outing, try kino on her,preferably on the first outing.

    Maybe this will work. Try it and let us know!
     
  10. AbsoluteFreakinChump

    AbsoluteFreakinChump Master Don Juan

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    I find that convo AND KINO is a POWERFUL combo! If you can charm her with your words (Making heer feel good about herself, because you are so interested in her) and get her thinking about you on a physical basis, you will be onto a 2 pronged approach that is likely to get success!
     
  11. T Dog

    T Dog Master Don Juan

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    bump
     
  12. tom121

    tom121 Senior Don Juan

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    so basically talk EVERYTHING about HER

    jeez why does guys have to suffer everything when it comes to woman :( well not everything.. sex :p
     

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