Apart from a one of silly "mistake" this weekend I feel I have now become the "Ultimate Don Juan" It is all in the attitude. Not JERK Not NICE GUY and not even NICE JERK I am the CARING GUY WHO TAKES NO SH!T. Boy does that work well! Okay, CARING: This is something that all girls need. They need their guy to CARE about them, they need to FEEL loved. This is your job, and it shouldn't be too hard after spending an hour or two on here really. If a girl thinks you don't care about her then she will not feel welcome, she will not feel right around you. TAKES NO SH!T Okay, this is what most people don't do or understand, this is where you COMMAND respect from a girl and where you LEARN about her the most. Here you need to learn that ANY sign of disrespect is bad, and should be dealt with RIGHT AWAY BEFORE it gets worse. If she thinks she can do this once, and get away, whats to stop her from doing it again? Disrespect is like a weed. -Something small that just gets on your nerves, but if you leave it alone it will soon become a problem that you will find hard to control. NEVER EVER let disrespect grow in your garden! -It's the sure root to bad times and eventually the dumping ground. Okay, next time she is trying to make you jealous by talking about some guy that she is "just going to lunch" with say something like this: "Listen, if I EVER thought you were upto ANYTHING with ANYONE else your ass would be outta here so fast it wouldn't even touch the floor on the way out." Then just leave it at that. (Say NOTHING else) -She has been put in her place. -She knows your annoyed with what she does -She knows you won't tolerate her annoying you -She thinks she isn't as secure as she first thought she was! (time for her to hit the drawing board again) All this while you sit preety knowing she is putting in all this effort for you! I'm just sooo good I wish I could eat myself up! Try it, learn it well and you will NEVER again have problems in a relationship. ------------------ *Hidden-Danjer* Stand back people I am in love with myself!