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Don Juan
Boys and girls,
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Keep the Woman Wanting More; Create a Challenge: The True Mark of a
Diamond Player
Have you ever experienced meeting a good looking girl at a club,
drinking and dancing with her all night, and toward the end of the
night she is tired of you? That is because she does not see you as a
challenge; it may be because you gave her the impression that you want
her, or it may be because you did not cut off your supply - or both,
which is often the case. I would like to focus on the latter of the
two: cutting your supply off.
It is necessary to be charming, and convey to the girl that you don't
need her or are not interested in her (even though you are
interested). But the true mark of a diamond player that will elicit a
positive response from her is developing the art of "cutting your
supply off." Most guys can learn to be charming and pretend that they
are not interested in a woman, but they miss the key component that
makes the woman want to be with them: cutting the supply off.
If you take a drug, you are on an exciting high, but when that supply
is cut short, you want more: your demand for the drug goes up.
Similarly, when you convey the image of a good-time guy, adventurous,
exciting, and then you cut your supply off from the woman, her demand
for you goes up!
Cutting your supply occurs in different contexts so it is important to
recognize your situation. First, you may be at a nightclub and meet a
sexy woman who you share drinks with and dance with throughout the
night. You show her that you are an exciting, good-time guy
(charming), and you give her the impression that you don't need her,
or that you are not interested in taking her home for the night
(confidence).
But the last thing that most guys think about is leaving the girl when
things are going great. This is where the diamond player stands out
from most guys; but the average guy would stay with her till bar time.
And consequently, most of the time, this gives the girl a chance to
get tired of him.
And at bar time, it gives her the pleasure of saying, "Well, it was
nice meeting you, but I am going to go home with my friends."
I challenge you men out there the next time you are having a great
time with a pretty girl at a night club and it's about one or two
hours before bar time, say to her, "Hey, I'm going to take off after
this beer." When you cut your supply off in this manner, I guarantee
you that she will see you as a challenge, and thus her demand for you
will skyrocket. However, if for some reason she does not have a
positive response, that is, if she does not care whether you stay or
go, then staying with her until bar time is not going to magically
increase her interest level for you; and, at least, you saved yourself
an hour or two.
But, for example, I was having a good time with a very pretty girl at
a club, who I thought would not be too interested in me; about an hour
in a half before bar time I told her that I was leaving after my beer,
and to my surprise she literally begged me to stay longer. But, I
stuck to my principle and I left; I swear the very next morning she
called me and wanted to do lunch. When you do this, you stand out
from most guys because women assume that you are going to stay with
them until bar time and that you have expectations. So, this bursts
their bubble, and all of a sudden you are in control and they see you
as a challenge!
This principle can be carried over to other contexts such as phone
calls. Again, cut your supply off; that is, spend the least amount of
time on the phone and be the first to say goodbye and give the
impression that you have other exciting things to do. Trust me, the
demand for you will go up! Also, this principle works not only with
girls at clubs, but with girlfriends. Cut many of your dates short.
Be late for the date, never wait, and leave early.
In short, frequent dosages of "cutting your supply short" will create
the demand for you and create a challenge for a woman to want you
more. Remember though that when you do cut your supply off, give her
the impression that you have other exciting things to do. Don't do
this with a cold attitude, but with a good-time-guy attitude.
Charming, Confidence, and Cutting your supply off creates the
challenge in a woman to continually want to be with you. (For further
reading, see F.J. Shark's book "How to be the Jerk that Women Love.")
Alan
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Obidexx under the sun.
This is another good one from the DJ tip of the day... for those of you not subscribed to it.. do it now!!
*********************************
Keep the Woman Wanting More; Create a Challenge: The True Mark of a
Diamond Player
Have you ever experienced meeting a good looking girl at a club,
drinking and dancing with her all night, and toward the end of the
night she is tired of you? That is because she does not see you as a
challenge; it may be because you gave her the impression that you want
her, or it may be because you did not cut off your supply - or both,
which is often the case. I would like to focus on the latter of the
two: cutting your supply off.
It is necessary to be charming, and convey to the girl that you don't
need her or are not interested in her (even though you are
interested). But the true mark of a diamond player that will elicit a
positive response from her is developing the art of "cutting your
supply off." Most guys can learn to be charming and pretend that they
are not interested in a woman, but they miss the key component that
makes the woman want to be with them: cutting the supply off.
If you take a drug, you are on an exciting high, but when that supply
is cut short, you want more: your demand for the drug goes up.
Similarly, when you convey the image of a good-time guy, adventurous,
exciting, and then you cut your supply off from the woman, her demand
for you goes up!
Cutting your supply occurs in different contexts so it is important to
recognize your situation. First, you may be at a nightclub and meet a
sexy woman who you share drinks with and dance with throughout the
night. You show her that you are an exciting, good-time guy
(charming), and you give her the impression that you don't need her,
or that you are not interested in taking her home for the night
(confidence).
But the last thing that most guys think about is leaving the girl when
things are going great. This is where the diamond player stands out
from most guys; but the average guy would stay with her till bar time.
And consequently, most of the time, this gives the girl a chance to
get tired of him.
And at bar time, it gives her the pleasure of saying, "Well, it was
nice meeting you, but I am going to go home with my friends."
I challenge you men out there the next time you are having a great
time with a pretty girl at a night club and it's about one or two
hours before bar time, say to her, "Hey, I'm going to take off after
this beer." When you cut your supply off in this manner, I guarantee
you that she will see you as a challenge, and thus her demand for you
will skyrocket. However, if for some reason she does not have a
positive response, that is, if she does not care whether you stay or
go, then staying with her until bar time is not going to magically
increase her interest level for you; and, at least, you saved yourself
an hour or two.
But, for example, I was having a good time with a very pretty girl at
a club, who I thought would not be too interested in me; about an hour
in a half before bar time I told her that I was leaving after my beer,
and to my surprise she literally begged me to stay longer. But, I
stuck to my principle and I left; I swear the very next morning she
called me and wanted to do lunch. When you do this, you stand out
from most guys because women assume that you are going to stay with
them until bar time and that you have expectations. So, this bursts
their bubble, and all of a sudden you are in control and they see you
as a challenge!
This principle can be carried over to other contexts such as phone
calls. Again, cut your supply off; that is, spend the least amount of
time on the phone and be the first to say goodbye and give the
impression that you have other exciting things to do. Trust me, the
demand for you will go up! Also, this principle works not only with
girls at clubs, but with girlfriends. Cut many of your dates short.
Be late for the date, never wait, and leave early.
In short, frequent dosages of "cutting your supply short" will create
the demand for you and create a challenge for a woman to want you
more. Remember though that when you do cut your supply off, give her
the impression that you have other exciting things to do. Don't do
this with a cold attitude, but with a good-time-guy attitude.
Charming, Confidence, and Cutting your supply off creates the
challenge in a woman to continually want to be with you. (For further
reading, see F.J. Shark's book "How to be the Jerk that Women Love.")
Alan
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