The Introduction of T Theory Still afraid to approach? Complaining to yourself “Why is this sooo tough how much more do I have to learn”? Trying to figure out if she likes you, how you should talk, walk, have your body language what nifty NLP Technique to do next? Here is the problem with current methods of teaching people how to get laid and success with women we all MUST pay attention to. 1. You can know it all and be killer with the ladies BUT that does not mean you know how to teach how to be killer with the ladies. 2. You can have the most brilliant ideas and concepts in the world BUT if you can’t express yourself correctly they mean nothing to anyone else. Well you might be asking yourself questions such as “What is he talking about my skiing teacher, my baseball coach, my guitar teacher, know the best way to teach”. The thing is these are ALL mechanical methods and step by step intellectual processes. Getting laid and arouse sexual attraction is NOT a mechanical process but a natural process hardwired into our genes. We don’t choose to venture off onto the girls side of the playground when we were in 6th grade by logical reasoning that we were now of age to have functioning sexual parts. We just did because something inside us compelled us to. It compelled us to take risk we wanted something although our socialization along the way tends to throw this off course big time which we’ll get into later. So why are you learning how to have game by logical methods and mechanical techniques? Teaching is a very intellectual exercise. Most people teaching how to get success with women today have difficulty conveying what it takes for very good reason! Getting women is not an intellectual exercise but a primal and natural one. I will equate it to this: A majority of the guru crowd teaching guys to get laid are exactly like a dude teaching a person to smile by: 1. Taking left side of face and raise it 15 degrees 2. Take the right side and do the same on 15 degrees 3. Open mouth exactly 3” centimeters 4. Top lip should be slightly curved while the bottom far more curved 5. pull up cheek muscle up slightly until it has indentation right near the mouth. 6. Make sure top teeth are showing for the most part 7. A little bit of the lower teeth should show too Troubleshooting If the top of your lip doesn’t curve upward we you failed steps 1 and 2 so please try again Blah blah blah blah blah Do this in the mirror right now. Now relax your face and I want you to think of the funniest experience you’ve ever had in your life. Look in the mirror again. Hmm same results eh? Although your first try might have been very awkward and uncomfortable looking. Not to mention people who can read body language very well (typically women) could sense it was a fake smile but the other was natural. In anywhere in the world facial expressions are exactly the same cause it is not a cultural mechanism but a natural one. Why? BECAUSE ITS NATURAL TO SMILE! It is ingrained in us naturally. Just like when a baby comes out of the mother and has a scowl facial expression not a smile or a smirk or a toungue sticking out while it cries. WHY? Because it is natural ingrained in us through evolution! *On a side note imagine what would happen if from day one we were discouraged to smile or have this natural smile reaction. What happens to a short-temper person who is bombarded by all society to have anger management. He usually loses his natural predisposition. (His anger usually also comes out different ways anyway but that’s another story) The point of this post is to prove that arousing sexual attraction in females, getting women are natural and ingrained in us too! I bet if we counted up all the techniques, mechanical methods for getting laid that there have popularly ever been that guys have spend hours, days, months on learning. We could fill a 50 volume encyclopedia with 500 pages per each volume. Making things complex and technical are certainly great if you want to market something. You can have a seminar on “approaching”, “NLP”, “getting laid”, “getting a girlfriend”, “body language” I mean look at how many posts there are on, varied techniques, how to act like an alpha male, how to have the right body language, voice tone, voice speed, say the right line, when you should call, How to get her in the mood, how to know if she likes you, how to sit, how to stand, what facial expression you should have, if you should crinkle your forehead, whether to argue or not with a women, should you be jealous, should you do this should you do that I could probably go on for 10 + pages just naming topics. The Ockham Razor “The simplest and most direct solution, requiring the fest number of steps, is usually the correct solution to any problem.” – Ockham’s Razor Picture a massive bicycle wheel that is 200 miles in diameter basically would be a large object if you looked from space laying flat on the earth. Probably the size of a large state. Your goal is to be able to see all parts of that bicycle wheel to see if it is a bicycle wheel or not. Currently 99% of you are seeing the bicycle wheel by walking the outer edges step by step to accomplish this. Which will take you countless time and bore you to tears. When all you have to do is stand right in the middle of it and do a 360 degree turn once! All of us have access to this epicenter, it is ingrained in us just like the ability to smile! This is what this post is about. When you have tapped into your natural game everything else will come natural including body language, what you say, voice tone, facial expression, when you should call, how you invite a girl out, how to get her in bed, and all the 10,000 other things! Why does 99% of the guru community teach walking around the wheel instead of that it is naturally in us? There are various reasons for this, they are generally the same reasons for why people follow all this and agree to the ways they teach. First reason is because people that are intellectual and highly intelligent always search for an intellectual way of interacting with their world. Therefore they search for how to create sexual attraction in an intellectual way. Generally those with high IQ’s have the affliction. Which is no surprise to see that a majority of the dudes in this forum generally have above average intelligence. They peg the methods of attraction intellectually. Lean back, crinkle forehead, walk slower, do this do that countless of other thousands of components. Secondly, the more technical and more you make it an intellectual process the more seminars, reading, audio tapes, video you can sell. If car repair was a natural instinct ingrained in us (It is not) we’d just need to focus on getting in touch with it not reading 30 different books on different aspects of the car. Here are the “Outer parts” of the wheel when non-natural try to intellectually internalize Walking – Most dudes walk with shoulders slumped, fast and nerous, arms tight in. But I want you to watch these same people after they won a victory………. Oh they are walking with their chest out, head up high, in a badass walk speed??? How is this so? No one ever taught them to walk like an alpha male!!! The truth is people the way you walk comes from internal states of mind not from mechanical intellectual processes like how to do a correct pitching wind up! Body Language – Tied straight to walking. These gurus go on about lean back, head up, shoulders back, relaxed posture. But when you FEEL the right way and are in touch with something you NATURALLY do this. Stop listening to people how to have body language. You are walking the outside of the wheel! Voice tone – C’mon get real here. Ohhhh talk slower, deepen your voice blah blah. Go and have sex with a girl, win a football game, see if you have a quick pitched, submissive, and nerdy voice. hmmm exactly... Facial Expressions – same logic applies here. Do you need to learn that you should have a ****y confident look, maybe a crinkle in the forehead, this that and all the other thing, while juggling patterns, lines, body language, NO these all come naturally from internal states and being in touch with SOMETHING we are about to get into very shortly. Pickup lines and patterns – When you are in touch with what need be inside you, you will communicate correctly, say what’s needed. Stop trying to memorize lines, you aren’t doing a sales pitch, the decision isn’t based in logical purchasing decisions, you are communicating to arouse something primal once you are in touch with where sexual attraction comes from none of this **** matters. NLP puts girls in certain states but the truth is you powerfully convey states such as sexual attraction, fun, action when you get in touch with what is natural. I think I’ve made my point. The only argument you might have is fake it until you make it. But why fake it, its already within you and natural! Here we go!