So......is it just me, or has anyone else noticed that women in a given social circle tend to be attracted to the same guy? Almost like if you are "that guy" you become anchored into that role. It's an interesting thing I have noticed.
Here's a couple of examples:
Went out the other night with my biz partner and some friends. We went downtown and met up with a group of girls I know, and one of them has a thing for my biz partner. There was another chick with her that I had met but he had not. He was introduced to this new chick and from the first minute she seemed to be mesmerized by him. It just seemed as if there was some kind of spark there that was created simply by the other chick having a thing for him.
Not to be outdone myself, I have noticed similar things happen the OPPOSITE when we are around a different social circle where one or more of the women is attracted to ME.
There is another group of friends that my biz partner and I hang with, but I am in a little tighter than he is with them.
In THIS particular social circle, I am the one who gets most of the attention from the women.
I'm not going to go into too much detail, but basically this group hinges around a good friend of mine and his girlfriend. His girl is the one who always tries to hook me up with her friends, cousins, coworkers, you name it.
The first time I met my buddy's girl, one of her friends was there and by the end of the night she was all over me. Meeting my buddy's girl seemed to become a doorway for opportunity for ME within this social circle.
Another one of the chicks in that group later on took a liking to me. We fooled around a couple of times, then she introduces me to one of her friends. We all go downtown one night, and the next thing you know I have the friend in her undies in my jacuzzi. Well, the chick that liked me didn't care too much for that and flipped me the bird as she was exiting my place, but I did end up fukking her 20 yr old. friend.
There's also another female friend of mine I hang with quite a bit. We have made out a couple of times, but for the most part we are just friends. We are pretty flirtatious around one another though, and recently I met one of her good friends. Guess what? Yep, the friend picked up on the vibe and now the friend seems good to go.
I could go on and on with other examples, but the point is that it seems that once you become anchored in a social circle as being sexually attractive, that attraction rubs off on others in the group and you become "THE MAN" in that situation.
Now I'm NOT talking about women who you are in a relationship with. THAT seems to work the opposite, to a point. When a chick has officially claimed you as HERS, chick code frowns upon other women in the group 0utwardly expressing attraction toward you. But when you are still "fair game" and one person has not officially staked her claim, it's almost like a chain reaction or a domino effect with other women.
Here's a couple of examples:
Went out the other night with my biz partner and some friends. We went downtown and met up with a group of girls I know, and one of them has a thing for my biz partner. There was another chick with her that I had met but he had not. He was introduced to this new chick and from the first minute she seemed to be mesmerized by him. It just seemed as if there was some kind of spark there that was created simply by the other chick having a thing for him.
Not to be outdone myself, I have noticed similar things happen the OPPOSITE when we are around a different social circle where one or more of the women is attracted to ME.
There is another group of friends that my biz partner and I hang with, but I am in a little tighter than he is with them.
In THIS particular social circle, I am the one who gets most of the attention from the women.
I'm not going to go into too much detail, but basically this group hinges around a good friend of mine and his girlfriend. His girl is the one who always tries to hook me up with her friends, cousins, coworkers, you name it.
The first time I met my buddy's girl, one of her friends was there and by the end of the night she was all over me. Meeting my buddy's girl seemed to become a doorway for opportunity for ME within this social circle.
Another one of the chicks in that group later on took a liking to me. We fooled around a couple of times, then she introduces me to one of her friends. We all go downtown one night, and the next thing you know I have the friend in her undies in my jacuzzi. Well, the chick that liked me didn't care too much for that and flipped me the bird as she was exiting my place, but I did end up fukking her 20 yr old. friend.
There's also another female friend of mine I hang with quite a bit. We have made out a couple of times, but for the most part we are just friends. We are pretty flirtatious around one another though, and recently I met one of her good friends. Guess what? Yep, the friend picked up on the vibe and now the friend seems good to go.
I could go on and on with other examples, but the point is that it seems that once you become anchored in a social circle as being sexually attractive, that attraction rubs off on others in the group and you become "THE MAN" in that situation.
Now I'm NOT talking about women who you are in a relationship with. THAT seems to work the opposite, to a point. When a chick has officially claimed you as HERS, chick code frowns upon other women in the group 0utwardly expressing attraction toward you. But when you are still "fair game" and one person has not officially staked her claim, it's almost like a chain reaction or a domino effect with other women.
