I'm going to keep this short and sweet, and right to the point. There are 3 crucial things you REALLY need to live by if you want to have any kind of success with the opposite sex. Here they are: 1) Have the balls to approach someone and let them know you are interested. If you don't make a move you won't go anywhere. 2) Don't be clingy and needy. No one likes dingleberries, so DON'T be one! 3) Learn to gracefully accept the fact that some people just aren't going to be attracted to you and some people are going to find that they just don't like you very much once they get to know you. You have those same feelings about other people so it's really silly to expect that some others won't have the same feelings about you as well. If it's not going well, just move on...it's not like there isn't anyone else to date. If you follow these relatively simple rules ALL of the time, you WILL be more successful with the opposite sex.