Signs of Attraction

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  1. Makaveli

    Makaveli Don Juan

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    Here are signs which girls might give you if they're attracted to ya:

    1) Smile a lot at ya

    2) Laugh at all your jokes, even if they're not funny

    3) Make lots of eye contact

    4) Pupils dilate when looking at you (they dilate naturally though when you drunk or are in dark light)

    5) Touch you - like holding your hand or hugging you etc.

    6) Brush hair often when chatting to you (could be ambiguous coz they may just be oing it naturally, on the other hand, they could be flustered and nervous)

    7) Arms aren't crossed when talking to you

    8) Seems jealous when you flirt with other girls

    9) Asks your friends about you

    10) Tries to make friends with your friends

    11) Phones you up and generally wants to be with you


    Anyone able to think of more signs? Please post here!

    -Makaveli da Don
     
  2. tristan22

    tristan22 Master Don Juan

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    guys

    I've noticed when i'm at the bar, every girl i talk to has dilated pupils. I know i'm good looking, however i realize that every girl isn't going to be interested in me!

    Can you experts fill me in?
     
  3. CobraGT

    CobraGT Senior Don Juan

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    Bars are a dark place and most eyes are dilated. It may be hard to recognize the affects of the dark from the affects of interest.

    CobraGT
     
  4. Danger Ranger

    Danger Ranger New Member

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    CobraGT is right. Also, alcohol will also cause the pupils to dilate. What matters most is whether they dilate more than they are normally. Try to judge her normal dilation when she's talking to a friend, ordering a drink, or looking away for a while.

    DR
     
  5. IntermediateDonJuaner

    IntermediateDonJuaner Master Don Juan

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    Not completely true here,Makaveli.

    Some women may be showing you all these signs of attractions in a way to lead you on.

    So your signs are not realible.! [​IMG]

    Have a nice day!
     
  6. Makaveli

    Makaveli Don Juan

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    Ok, so it might be true that they may be leading you on with those signs too, but some of them are given out by girls who find you attractive. You've just got to learn to differentiate between the girls who are leading you on and the sincere ones.

    They are reliable [​IMG]
     
  7. IntermediateDonJuaner

    IntermediateDonJuaner Master Don Juan

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    Not really realible yet.!

    You did not mention how to differentiate between interested women and women that lead men on [​IMG]

    Clarify here on how to differentiate between interested women and women that lead men on
     
  8. Makaveli

    Makaveli Don Juan

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    I honestly don't think it's possible to find out if they're leading you on or not, unless you ask for their number, they give it, then they go out on a date with you. If they do that, it shows they're interested in you.
     
  9. IntermediateDonJuaner

    IntermediateDonJuaner Master Don Juan

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    I don't think that's a good answer , Makaveli.

    There are many professional daters outside and you cannot expect them to be that innocent.!

    Your signs of attraction list is GOOD!,but it is not good enough to weed out those that are not interested in us.!
     
  10. ChrisFl

    ChrisFl Master Don Juan

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    Nice list... if only some of those things would happen.
     
  11. CHALENGE GUY

    CHALENGE GUY Senior Don Juan

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    If only the moderator could moderate his own insecurity.

    Great post.
     
  12. Giovanni Casanova

    Giovanni Casanova Master Don Juan

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    If a girl has sex with you, this is a signal that she may, possibly, maybe, perhaps be interested in you.
     
  13. Vatican

    Vatican Senior Don Juan

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    dilated pupils--sign of attraction or heavy LSD use?
     
  14. DJTrainee

    DJTrainee Don Juan

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    ROFL
     
  15. Vatican

    Vatican Senior Don Juan

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    Or maybe it is heavy LSD use and she hallucinated you into Brad Pitt. That would explain the sex.
     
  16. BGMan

    BGMan Master Don Juan

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    It shouldn't be that difficult to differentiate between girls who are really interested and those who are trying to lead you on.

    First, if a girl has sex with you, it doesn't necessarily mean she's interested... she could be using you for sex! (really, there are sluts out there like that!)

    Now, I'd expect that if a girl is leading you on, she probably doesn't give a #$@% about her behavior around you. Therefore, watch out for girls who are totally at ease and not at all nervous! Why? Because, if a girl is nervous, you give her that thrill that she had better be her best around you or you'll totally diss her!

    There are also differences in flirting between player girls and genuinely interested girls. Player girls tend to flirt more, especially more in public. Interested girls try to get your attention more in private or clandestinely. It's that feeling that she's trying to share a little something with you and you only. Strictly Confidential, in other words. [​IMG]

    BGMan
     
  17. Giovanni Casanova

    Giovanni Casanova Master Don Juan

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    I know. I was alluding to that when I wrote the whole "may, possibly, maybe, perhaps" thing.



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  18. BGMan

    BGMan Master Don Juan

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    I noticed that. That was for other dudes. [​IMG]

    BGMan
     
  19. KinoOI

    KinoOI Master Don Juan

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    Just gona post that! lol, great ideas man!
     
  20. Don Scotta

    Don Scotta Don Juan

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    I realize this post is old. But, something about the whole pupils dilating thing.

    I think that we all recognize this subconciously. I could always tell by the 'way' a girl looked at me if she liked me. Reading about the pupils dilating just sorta clarified it for me.

    So I wouldn't concentrate too much on pupil size, more on the general way she is lookin at ya. Sorry if this is too vague.
     

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