Having trouble sheding the nice guy way of thinking? Be a prick one day this week. One of the biggest things a nice guy (read a guy not getting any play) has to get over is this fear of losing people's approval. I'm not saying you go and curse girls out or do anything that will get you arrested, but just be a little pushy and arrogant. You'll be amazed at the response you get. If a girl gets all offended at your behavior just tell her to go to hell and walk away. This is best done someplace where you really dont give a damn if you get a bad rep there or get told to get out. A good place is a smallish restaraunt since there are prolly hundreds just like it in your city. Here are the rules of thumb that I go by when I do this: 1) never say please or thank you. 2) never say hello or goodbye. 3) approach women that you are not even interested in and have no intention of calling back even if you get their number. 4) if you are turned down or insulted don't let it go without sending back a zinger or two. 5) HAVE FUN with it. when you get back to your car after hitting a place you ought to be just about laughing your ass off. they probobly will be too. Probobly it will be the most interesting thing that happened that whole week for whoever you do this to. by the end of the day (or a couple of hours or whatever) you will have been rejected rudely by women a few times. If you follow my rules any woman that ignores or rejects you will get an earful back. After you see that your life has not crumbled down around you, its the same type of feeling like when you stood up to that schoolyard bully and howed him you weren't gonna take his sh** any more. You will look at women in a whole different way. don't beleive me? Try it. Just remember, you arn't trying to get into a fight. If she rejects or ignores say something rude and leave. If she is back there still yelling **** after you just ignore her. Ever since I tried this one day I have almost no fear of rejection when I approach in a 'normal' non-jerk manner. I know that if she rejects she better be nice about it and use good manners cause if not I'ma put a verbal hurtin on her and walk the hell away laughing my ass off. Here is an example. (really pretty, but snotty-looking teenage girl sweeping the floor in a Mc Donalds) Me: (really rude and sarcastic) You missed a spot. Her: (Evil look then keeps sweeping) Me: don't look at me like that. It's not my fault you can't sweep a floor right. Her: **** off! Me: (getting up and starting to walk out) How original, mind if I use it later? No wonder this place is so dirty with you working here. Her: (standing there holding her broom looking like if I just spit on the Mona Lisa) Me: LMAO in my car.