Porn & Dating Women

Discussion in 'Don Juan Tips' started by terminator911, Aug 27, 2000.

  1. terminator911

    terminator911 Master Don Juan

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    A Few Words of Advice About Pornography and Dating Single
    Women

    My focus this week is on pornography. You need to be aware that a lot
    of single women are offended by pornography and think it is demeaning
    to women, causes moral decay, rape, prostitution, etc.

    So, to be on the safe side early in a relationship with a woman, it
    would be wise to hide any pornographic photos, magazines, videos, sex
    toys, etc. from her.

    I would advise hiding it in a good place like the attic or locked up
    in a trunk, file cabinet, etc. Don't hide it under your mattress or
    under the bed or in your closet. You'd be surprised how women will
    snoop around while you're not looking.

    So what's the point of all this? If a girl you're dating is disgusted
    and offended by porno and she accidently or purposely discovers
    pornographic materials in your apartment or house, guess what message
    that sends to her? She may think that you're some kind of pervert and
    may be very offended. Offended to the point that she will not want to
    date you anymore.

    So guys, keep your porno out of sight until you get to know a woman
    better and her viewpoints on pornography, sex toys, etc.

    If she has nothing against pornography then you don't have to be so
    discreet. But, if she is dead set against porno even after you have
    established a serious relationship, just keep your stuff hidden (you
    can always break it out when she's not around).

    Don Diebel

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    "Women. They've got half the money in the world and all the pu$$y."
     
  2. wutang180

    wutang180 Master Don Juan

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    damn people still buy pornographic magazines . I keep all my porn inside my computer (lol) and if I know someone is going to snoop around my computer I just go to start---settings---task bar and star menu-and just clear all of my documents it's as simple as that. However, I really think that it's not cool buying porno. the best think to do is just download it for free on the internet. however looking at pornos is bad for u cuz it brings u in this fantasy land. So limit the amount of times u see it or just get out more. I look at porno on an average an hour out of the week,
     
  3. REd-xL

    REd-xL Master Don Juan

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    You'd be surprised how much fun it is to actaully watch porn with a girl. My take on girls that don't like porn is that they're really uptight, no fun in the sack at all. I usually tend to steer clear of these non-adventurous, narrow-minded type of girls in the first place. But I'll be damned if they're the smart ones...

    Rx

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    "It's the little things that matter most, and subtlety is the key to opening the
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    "You control your own destiny, but the path you take determines your legacy."
     
  4. Ko-B

    Ko-B Master Don Juan

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    true that...have you seen that Friends episode when they had free porno...and then Chandler came home and said to Joey, "Man, I can't believe it! I met this really pretty girl at the teller at the bank today, and she didn't ask me to have sex with her inside the vault!!!" and Joey told Chandler, "Yeah, I know! Do you know what the really hot pizza delivery girl did today? She delivered the pizza, took the money, and LEFT!!"

    tsk tsk...just watch out guys.

    i don't even look at porno, period. i'm sick of porno. p'z...
     
  5. Skyhawk

    Skyhawk Don Juan

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    I have discovered that watching porn with hard to get chicks, has never failed me yet.
    A half hour of porn watching always get them in the mood for more then just hand holding. Try it and get back to me.

    [This message has been edited by Skyhawk (edited 01-02-2002).]
     
  6. wise_mage

    wise_mage Senior Don Juan

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    how do u get them to watch porno with you? does anyone know how I can sop being addicted to porn?
     
  7. Iskandar Reza

    Iskandar Reza Don Juan

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    Make your own with the girl [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG]
     
  8. Throwing out your porn = more motivation to pick up women
     
  9. ~UnDisputed~

    ~UnDisputed~ Senior Don Juan

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    isnt hiding yer porn a givin. . .good idea not to put in under tha matress. chix go snoopin through yer all the time. . .so nosey. . .

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  10. VeryBadGirl

    VeryBadGirl Master Don Juan

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    I agree with RedXL. Find a woman that likes porn - you will be MUCH happier. You can keep porn around the house and she doesn't care if you look at it, you two can watch it together and act it out, you two can create your own porn. Chances are, she doesn't care if you go to a strip club with your buddies -as long as you don't touch [​IMG], and, in general, she is going to be a more fun, experimental and easy-going woman. Or at least that is what I have observed from knowing women that like porn cvs those who hate it.
     
  11. UnluckynLuv

    UnluckynLuv Senior Don Juan

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    true, true. I have not looked at porn in over two years. It got where i was using it to jerk off everyday. I lost my modivation to go lok for real women. I think you're better off without it.


     
  12. Crank_It_Up

    Crank_It_Up Master Don Juan

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    some girls don't like the competition of cute perfect bodied porn queens willing to do anything anywhere...

    if she doesn't like it, she doesn't have to read/watch it.
     
  13. KiInCollege

    KiInCollege Senior Don Juan

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    Damn how'd you find this ancient post?

    Girls that like to view porn with you are girls you want to be with. They are secure and they trust you. They admit that they touch themselves. They understand how we are. They're curious and interested in the art of sex. This is the girl you can have sex with for the rest of your life and be satisfied!

    Use porn to screen your women today.




    Okay wait until you're at least having sex with her first. Then it's definitely okay to check her interest in it.
     
  14. Speed Demond

    Speed Demond Don Juan

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    Hahahaha I can't Believe you Guys...all Affraid of a girl finding your porn...if she finds that ****t degrading it's cuz she's an uptight feminist...dudes , you don't want to go out with that. Damn i'v brought home the Most gorgeouse Ladies and i throw on porn and their like..wo..thats awsome...and yes it gets the in the mood. If a girl has a problem with that. **** her....what ever you enjoy you shouldn't sacrifice for no chick!!!!!!! Just watch all the porn you want and have all the magz you want and Enjoy!
     
  15. Sexy_Malibu

    Sexy_Malibu Master Don Juan

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    Personally, I enjoy watching porn with guys. Although I am opposed to any pornography that involves rape, violence, children, or animals. :D

    Here's something interesting to consider about porn... (from newyorkmetro.com):

     
  16. Señor Fingers

    Señor Fingers Master Don Juan

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    Great post, Malibu.

    Sums up my current feelings on porn. It also explains why so many young guys experience erectile dysfunction these days.

    I guess a passionate kiss doesnt seem so passionate when you get used to watching a wide variety of women take it up the arse and get sploojed on repeatedly.

    Can you say "de-sensitization"?

    Another interesting thing about porn is that you associate your sexuality to a state of isolation. It becomes so private that you develop a weird sense of awkwardness/shame to share this intimacy with someone else. I know this is not the case with all guys, but I speak for myself and lots of my friends who have noticed this as well.

    When I gave up my porn addiction, I noticed that my interactions with women became more charged. Plain old eye contact became a turn-on and physical touching was explosive!

    The few times I succumbed to the porno urge afterwards, I noticed that my sex life would suffer a bit. Instead of creating a sensual rhythm with my woman and ascending to new heights of pleasure together, I was basically using her body to wack off. The result? So-so orgasms for me and not as much fun for her.

    These experiences have taught me that moderation is key. If you are a porn-junkie and insist that it doesnt affect your love life, I encourage you to give it up for 2 weeks just to see what it does to you!

    In regards to women discovering your fetishes, I have to disagree with the original poster. If you do watch porn occasionally you should not feel the need to hide your stash. Why make apologies for who you are? You should have no shame to ya game!

    EDIT: Hmm, on second thought, if part of your stash includes "Barnyard B!tches & Hoes Volume 12" then mebbe you should keep it out of sight! (Or better yet BURN the damn thing and get some help!)

    These days, I dont miss the skin flicks at all. Who needs porn when you have actual women, and a healthy imagination? ;)
     
  17. dietzcoi

    dietzcoi Master Don Juan

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    Agree with most stated here but I do NOT agree that women wearing robes from head to toe such as in Saudi Arabia INCREASES sexuality. Far from it... those people have NO sex education nor do they learn as we do from the internet, books, etc. How can that be a satisfying sex life?

    Besides, to live in a society where the women must hide their bodies and sexuality... terrible! Why live at all?

    Seeing beautiful women is one of lifes great pleasures... anybody who is against that, is against everything good and decent.

    Religious nuts!!!

    Dietzcoi
     
  18. Sexy_Malibu

    Sexy_Malibu Master Don Juan

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