Offensive vs defensive plays

Discussion in 'Don Juan Tips' started by WildThang, Nov 18, 2001.

The Natural Book

FREE BOOK OFFER

You can receive a copy of Richard La Ruina's best-selling book for free here:

The Natural - How to Effortlessly Attract the Women You Want

This book has sold over 120,000 copies worldwide and people love it – 4.5 stars and 280 reviews on Amazon.

So go ahead and grab your free copy.

  1. DJ4Real

    DJ4Real Master Don Juan

    Joined:
    Sep 6, 2005
    Messages:
    953
    Likes Received:
    0
    Age:
    just a #
    Good post.
     
  2. I_Only_Live_Once

    I_Only_Live_Once Senior Don Juan

    Joined:
    May 15, 2005
    Messages:
    228
    Likes Received:
    4
    One of the best posts I've ever read.
     
  3. Life-Trainee

    Life-Trainee Master Don Juan

    Joined:
    Feb 29, 2004
    Messages:
    798
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Boston, MA
    Age:
    23
    Great post but it doesn't really cover getting the mindset.

    What I learned, and what one of the posters pointed out. You only gain this perspective from a lot of experience. You HAVE to know what you want in a woman, and you MUST know your own value in order to have this mindset. There are NO shortcuts. You can't get this experience from 3 or 5 approaches.

    Otherwise it's like saying "You got to have confidence" without really saying how to obtain it.
     
  4. I_Only_Live_Once

    I_Only_Live_Once Senior Don Juan

    Joined:
    May 15, 2005
    Messages:
    228
    Likes Received:
    4
    I somewhat agree with that, but not entirely. Although experience is desired, the confidence should come first. For example, you can go into a job and be confident even if you've never worked there before. I'm sure Bill Gates didn't enter business by saying "gee I don't have any experience here compared to those other guys. I probably won't do very well". Or Tiger Woods saying "I'm too young to play, these guys are more experienced and are more confident than me".
    I think experience is used to compliment your confidence that you should already have. As Pook says "Success is achieved first through the mind, then through the world, never the other way around."
     
  5. Stackthestyles

    Stackthestyles Banned

    Joined:
    May 29, 2006
    Messages:
    308
    Likes Received:
    1
    bump
     
  6. rsxtreme

    rsxtreme Don Juan

    Joined:
    May 19, 2006
    Messages:
    194
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    San Francisco
    nice stuff.
     
  7. realsmoothie

    realsmoothie Master Don Juan

    Joined:
    May 30, 2006
    Messages:
    1,069
    Likes Received:
    9
    OK I'm confused by the "chicken or the egg" thing going on.

    Are we saying that confidence comes from success or success comes from confidence?

    Obviously we get confidence from having our lives in order. But the original post says that this isn't the point... we should have the mindset FIRST and success (in all phases) will come later.

    Does anyone have a suggestion for tricking the old mind into feeling this confidence "early"?
     

Share This Page