G&SF
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Hey guys,
This is my first post on this site, so bear with me.
Ok, so basically my buddy is dating a girl I really like, to make this easier we will call him Adam, and the girl Paula.
I am 16, in grade 11, and I'm an army reservist in the Canadian Armed Forces. Last year Paula liked both me, and Adam. However i had to leave the entire summer so i could complete my basic training. Adam and i came to the agreement that he would not ask her out so we both had a fair chance at getting her. 2 days after I left I recieved a letter from my best friend Derek, who also happens to be Paula's best friend, saying that Adam had asked her out and they are now dating.
still with me?
Basically he broke our agreement, and pissed me off. They are still dating now, and for awhile I had given up. I still really like her, so what i am going to do is attract her until the point where she likes me again. Right now they are going through a rough time, and will probably break up soon. This is why i need to start now, so when they do I will have a jump start on the other guys.
Now, i'm not looking for sex or anything, I want to have a relationship with this girl. I've had my share of quick dates or whatever you want to call them.
Anyway, what i need help is, how do I attract her? Not in a way that will get me a one night stand. The first time i attracted her was an accident, and i have no idea how it happened.
I realize I might come off sounding like a ****, but it's not like that. I would like to walk out of this with Paula as my girlfriend, and adam as a friend still. But if I have to give up one of them adam will be the first to go. Any tips on how to do this/how not to do this, would be greatly appreciated.
thanks,
Jack
This is my first post on this site, so bear with me.
Ok, so basically my buddy is dating a girl I really like, to make this easier we will call him Adam, and the girl Paula.
I am 16, in grade 11, and I'm an army reservist in the Canadian Armed Forces. Last year Paula liked both me, and Adam. However i had to leave the entire summer so i could complete my basic training. Adam and i came to the agreement that he would not ask her out so we both had a fair chance at getting her. 2 days after I left I recieved a letter from my best friend Derek, who also happens to be Paula's best friend, saying that Adam had asked her out and they are now dating.
still with me?
Basically he broke our agreement, and pissed me off. They are still dating now, and for awhile I had given up. I still really like her, so what i am going to do is attract her until the point where she likes me again. Right now they are going through a rough time, and will probably break up soon. This is why i need to start now, so when they do I will have a jump start on the other guys.
Now, i'm not looking for sex or anything, I want to have a relationship with this girl. I've had my share of quick dates or whatever you want to call them.
Anyway, what i need help is, how do I attract her? Not in a way that will get me a one night stand. The first time i attracted her was an accident, and i have no idea how it happened.
I realize I might come off sounding like a ****, but it's not like that. I would like to walk out of this with Paula as my girlfriend, and adam as a friend still. But if I have to give up one of them adam will be the first to go. Any tips on how to do this/how not to do this, would be greatly appreciated.
thanks,
Jack