Just a dumb question guys. I have liked a few girls who I never thought was attractive initially. But after becoming good friends, then I found them attractive and then asked them out....each time...I got LJBF'ed. Then the girls I find attractive initially based on looks, I make a move on and end up dating them. It seems that if you become friends with a girl, it is most likely that you will never hook up with them. Why do girls think that way? Is it becuz we are not sweeping them off their feet by being their friends? No challenge in dating a friend? I have no idea why women think that way. Any thoughts?