mikeraw
Don Juan
The vast majority of advice on this and other forums stress the fact that you have to be very outgoing, be the life of the party, be full of energy, etc... But no one ever addresses the possibility that sometimes you want to go out and get laid, but you have no energy to even fake being full of energy, no matter how many Red Bulls...
The usual answer is to try to emulate James Bond's smooth, easy-going, laid-back style... but come on, let's face it... The guy is a fictional character... Hard to imitate and hard to pull off successfully...
There has to be a formula, a behavioral pattern, or certain things in particular that you can do when you're not completely inspired or full of energy... I'm an engineer and there's nothing as draining as using your brain all day... a drink or two at the end of the day will relax and calm you down, but not exactly turn you into the life of the party... and since I just moved to Houston I try to go out every single night to meet chicks (I hardly know anyone here...).
I agree with and understand most high-energy approaches, but I swear from personal experience that even with no energy, you can pick up chicks... I don't know how I've done it and it fails most of the time, but I've gone up to chicks to have the most played conversations ever and still get a number... I haven't figured out a pattern...
Confidence? I guess that's a side-effect of not caring... but it has to have the right combination of something that I still can't figure out...
Low-energy pick ups... any thoughts on the matter?
The usual answer is to try to emulate James Bond's smooth, easy-going, laid-back style... but come on, let's face it... The guy is a fictional character... Hard to imitate and hard to pull off successfully...
There has to be a formula, a behavioral pattern, or certain things in particular that you can do when you're not completely inspired or full of energy... I'm an engineer and there's nothing as draining as using your brain all day... a drink or two at the end of the day will relax and calm you down, but not exactly turn you into the life of the party... and since I just moved to Houston I try to go out every single night to meet chicks (I hardly know anyone here...).
I agree with and understand most high-energy approaches, but I swear from personal experience that even with no energy, you can pick up chicks... I don't know how I've done it and it fails most of the time, but I've gone up to chicks to have the most played conversations ever and still get a number... I haven't figured out a pattern...
Confidence? I guess that's a side-effect of not caring... but it has to have the right combination of something that I still can't figure out...
Low-energy pick ups... any thoughts on the matter?