I see an escort once a month

[latino158]

usually the same one, but sometimes I try new ones, mostly around $150-200, I'm sure I could get it for 100, but I usually go with agencies, even though they are a little more expensive, the process is much easier and worry free. I only see white women, usually blondes or redheads lol since I'm young and decent looking, I get good treatments. I prefer to see the same ones, because I feel more comfortable, there is more connection, they trust me more, and let me do more things that civilian women wouldn't. I mostly like the kissing, massaging, cuddling though, I know is not real, but it feels real to me, I'm sure some of them, must feel some attraction towards me, they are still human beings after all.

I have tried the whole PUA gaming bull****, and I haven't had much success. I'm a decent looking guy, and didn't have a problem getting numbers, even some dates, but it usually goes nowhere after that. I'm a quiet and introverted person, and this probably has a lot to do with it. I know women are not into guys like me. I have tried everything to be different, but is impossible, I cannot change my quietness and introversion, even when I'm drunk, I'm still more quiet and introverted than the average person.

I'm aware of this, which is why I don't try much anymore. I had 2 long lasting girlfriends in my whole life, and only 2 one night stands.

My main goal is to find a girlfriend, a woman who I can spend my life with, and have kids someday, but that takes lots of luck, is not something you can force, until then I will continue to see escorts to keep my mental health and sanity

 

[amazingswayze]

cheer up cowboy

I have tried the whole PUA gaming bull****, and I haven't had much success. I'm a decent looking guy, and didn't have a problem getting numbers, even some dates, but it usually goes nowhere after that. I'm a quiet and introverted person, and this probably has a lot to do with it. I know women are not into guys like me. I have tried everything to be different, but is impossible, I cannot change my quietness and introversion, even when I'm drunk, I'm still more quiet and introverted than the average person.

I'm aware of this, which is why I don't try much anymore. I had 2 long lasting girlfriends in my whole life, and only 2 one night stands.

My main goal is to find a girlfriend, a woman who I can spend my life with, and have kids someday, but that takes lots of luck, is not something you can force, until then I will continue to see escorts to keep my mental health and sanity

not sure if you're looking for a response, but I'll give you my 2 cents. i was shy once. here is my testimony. This past year, I was a closet rapper. when the talent show came around, i grabbed my balls and conquered my stage fright. theres obviously a lot more to this story but the bottom line is that you can change your personality. all it takes is a major event. you have to challenge yourself to do the impossible. i thought it would be impossible for me to get up on stage and rap, but once i did it, i became a new person. its hard to explain.

one thing i will tell you, is that the escort thing is no big deal. ****, i would buy ***** too if i was in the mood.

all i can really say to you is that life can be much better and you think that PUA just wont work for you but all it takes is a little more effort and confidence.

you have what it takes to be all you can be.

trust me bro.

 

[SeymourCake]

Instead of wasting your money on them, you should invest that money into yourself. Most people who see escorts already have a girlfriend/wife and are seeing an escort because they need to escape the BS from their relationship. Most escorts don't feel attraction towards their clients because it's strictly business. In fact, they look down on their clients for the most part. Don't mistake their act with being affectionate towards you with actual attraction. It's all part of their scheme to milk money out of your wallet. The majority of the money you give them goes to their pimp---I mean "agency".

 

[skinnyguy]

Instead of chasing women, chase money and power

 

[PeasantPlayer]

If you think having a woman by your side will keep you healthy and sane, sorry to say your worse off then you think. You need to learn to enjoy yourself more, cause in the end its all you got. Get out of your comfort zones you have built and do and try different things. There is no set time for when you reach the AHA moment and realize you took a step forward or made a difference in yourself mentality wise, It could takes months, years even a decade depending on the person. I think people in general have to stop acting like they don't like doing certain things they never really tried, explore try something and grow and get better at it. Not everyone journey takes the same amount of time to reach a goal. The goal is feasible so you should try it.

 

[Peña]

A waste of money. Improve yourself so you can get women without having to pay. Invest your money wisely to better your life.

 

[foreverAFC]

im a pretty introverted and depressed guy too, ive just accepted that im going to live my life alone. im unable to connect with other people, ive been lonely my entire life. there really is no answer, i just try to get used to it and deal with it the best i can. ive literally spent every friday night of the past decade at the gym by my house, just working out alone, trying to make the time go by and trying to improve myself the only way i know how. at least im not trapped in some shtty relationship or sexless marriage like many grown men are.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AYEvuA70hD0

 

[Skyline]

I'm naturally introverted. But I am not shy or depressed, maybe lonely sometimes but that's normal. I don't even remember the last time I was even sad about myself to be honest. I feel like the people who care about women the most are the ones that are most troubled.

I just started my technical school today and there is two girls I'm interested in. I'm not socially retarded so I'm going to get both of them. Instead of complaining and doing nothing about how I get lonely sometimes, I'm going to go after what I want.

You have to be fine on your own before anything else.

 

[Solomon]

Latino is a 30plus broke guy who is depressed still living a this parents house....bro you need to improve your whole life. Can't believe you're still doing escorts.

 

[BeTheChange]

IMost people who see escorts already have a girlfriend/wife and are seeing an escort because they need to escape the BS from their relationship.

False. Most men who see escorts do so because they don't care about what society thinks.

It's fun, hassle free, time inexpensive and you get to sample new women.

Of course I would never advocate regular use as a substution for real women but good time girls definitely have their place.

Saying every guy who visits escorts is a looser is like saying every guy who visits a site where people to discuss "how to get the womeeeenz??" (sound familiar) has no social life.

Society could easily make sweeping generalisations about every single person on this site by virtue of simply posting here - let's not make the same idiotic mistake here.

 

[mangotot]

at least im not trapped in some shtty relationship or sexless marriage like many grown men are.

Why are you saying just because the lives of others are $hit its ok for yours to be $hit too.

 

[bigneil]

A waste of money. Improve yourself so you can get women without having to pay. Invest your money wisely to better your life.

Sure. We should take financial advice from someone who thinks $100 is a lot of money, who budgets $20 for dates, and who will tell us how to invest the difference.

I've never called an escort but I would say the opposite: don't go near any girl who would have sex for as little as $100-$200. That's 5-10 guys a week she needs to make a living.

 

[latino158]

Latino is a 30plus broke guy who is depressed still living a this parents house....bro you need to improve your whole life. Can't believe you're still doing escorts.

age : 31

lol

 

[Cejay]

http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/12/the-myth-of-the-lonely-old-man/

I've never seen an escort but thought about it. Probably a lot cheaper than dating from both an emotional and monetary standpoint.

I've been pretty lucky/successful in life but if I looked at the investment of $150-$200 1-2x/month for an escort and focusing my remaining time and money on education/career vs. time and money invested being married, getting divorced and chasing women/spinning plates, I think I'd likely be substantially further ahead with the former.

CJ

 

[pyros]

I think OP should spend his money going to the psychologist and improving himself and his life in general.

Instead of paying for sex which leads nowhere...just jerk off when you feel like it so all your horniness will disapear and you will not have the need for sex...then repeat the cycle.

Just pay for sex as a reward, I mean, let's say you've gained 5 kg of muscle in a few months, or you've improved your career, or you've done something you thought you couldnt do...then reward yourself. Of course it should be something important for you not just hey, I washed my car...now I will go get some sex, nope.

Dont hire a escort just because "you cant get any"; that is the ultimate wrong mindset unless you are: too old, deformed, about to die, you have literally no time because of work, etc.

 

[mangotot]

There is nothing wrong with ordering out an escort i haven't done it in a while tough i seem to just not care for that anymore, you just have to learn not to take them seriously some of them are really mental, they even have boyfriends and they will give it to you french kissing and all. Its just amazing.

The last one i ordered her boyfriend call on her cell while she was with me then he texted her, she said enough she closed her phone and put it in her purse then said you are all mine, she jumped on me and started kissing me like crazy.

Anyone going out with a sex worker as issues, they are *****s not to be trusted.

Interesting post. How so are they mental and why are they not to be trusted? Sorry for the niavity.

 

[Genos]

It's difficult to really convey how I feel about the OP's sentiments. I too have felt the same feelings of frustration/loneliness, so I can relate there.

But at the same time, I'm angry at seeing someone give up and take the easy way out. At 31 years old, your mental fortitude is this weak? You cannot handle rejection from women? You say you can't change? Have you tried working out and getting a toned body (this alone will change your mental attitude more than you know). You've got to be kidding me man, stop with the lame excuses.

Think about it this way - if you were a successful business owner who had no problems with money, your home, your career, would you really give a damn about whether some random chick denied your offer for afternoon coffee? No, because you'd KNOW that there are other women out there who would jump at the chance to be with you.

As Pook said, "Live, Laugh, Love." Get the order correctly - you have to be able to LIVE and BE HAPPY, and then love will come rather easily. Get your attitude out of the gutter, take a break from actively pursuing women for a month (not physically removing yourself from their presence, but not seeking out sex/dates from them - continue to be social), then get back into it. During this time, focus on yourself and YOUR happiness.

 

[bigneil]

I can't imagine there are any escorts out of the phone book who only charge $150. That's how much it costs just as the fee to get into VIP. They might charge $150 to show up plus $150 an hour, but even plumbers want $150 to make house calls. $300 plus tip is cheap for sex. $500 plus tip is the going rate. Some girls will try to hold out to get thousands. And for the most expensive, there are of course wives.

And anyone who thinks jerking off is the same thing as paying for it, they are wrong. While girls can sense when you haven't had it in a while, and they might assume you paid, they can't tell whether the sex you just had was paid for or was "free" (if there really is such a thing after college keg parties). You simply don't act desperate anymore because you are not. Because all forms of dating cost the man time and money, most men have no problem with the idea of paying. Personally, I just need to know they are attracted to me, which is why an escort could hardly ever work (assuming I was attracted to them). Paying a girl who you know isn't attracted is just wrong. You are out of your league and should be working on improving instead. That said, with strippers it's hard to know for sure they are attracted. Girls will fake it. It's called "the game", or pretending to like a guy. It's not easy to meet ones who you can know for sure are attracted, but they usually don't charge you every time. The ones who are attracted are usually either overwhelmed at first sight, or ones you hang around with until a crush develops. In both cases they must approach you, and must not have a pimp. Also, unless half your dates are regular girls, you will lose touch with your true market value. Ideally, paying for it simply snaps you out of your slump.

 

[Yewki]

You need to learn to enjoy yourself more, cause in the end its all you got.

QFT

 

[SmooveMooves]

Wtf is happening to this website?