I chose pride over a potential same night lay...

[hockeyfreak79]

I think I agree with your frame of my mind, but all these 3some comments aren't very realistic..

You'd be really surprised man, I'm telling you!
A wing buddy of mine pulled a divorced 35yr ole POF last weekend. She caught up with us having drinks. She was better looking than I expected. Found out her marriage was open RL, swingers or some sh*t. Anyway about 90mins into it, and some drinks of course she asked us if either of us had ever done DP. NOPE I'M GOOD! Of course she like broads too. Yeah I'm out on the DP.

I don't know that I would even do a 3(another chick) way with that broad. Open RL for 10yrs and swingers, she could easily be in the 200-300 range. NEXT!

 

[samspade]

I think I agree with your frame of my mind, but all these 3some comments aren't very realistic..

At that point nothing was realistic and everything was realistic, if that makes sense. A combination of going for broke and (as guru said) enjoying the process. She put the threesome in play by bringing a friend and flirting with two dudes. If you'd still gone home with nothing, you wouldn't have lost any more than you'd planned on losing that night - which is really nothing. When you went out alone for a steak it was the same concept. If you're having a good time, you're always playing with house money.

 

[Reyaj]

You'd be really surprised man, I'm telling you!
A wing buddy of mine pulled a divorced 35yr ole POF last weekend. She caught up with us having drinks. She was better looking than I expected. Found out her marriage was open RL, swingers or some sh*t. Anyway about 90mins into it, and some drinks of course she asked us if either of us had ever done DP. NOPE I'M GOOD! Of course she like broads too. Yeah I'm out on the DP.

I don't know that I would even do a 3(another chick) way with that broad. Open RL for 10yrs and swingers, she could easily be in the 200-300 range. NEXT!

You gotta define some of these acronyms.. RL and DP?

At that point nothing was realistic and everything was realistic, if that makes sense. A combination of going for broke and (as guru said) enjoying the process. She put the threesome in play by bringing a friend and flirting with two dudes. If you'd still gone home with nothing, you wouldn't have lost any more than you'd planned on losing that night - which is really nothing. When you went out alone for a steak it was the same concept. If you're having a good time, you're always playing with house money.

So I think what gets lost sometimes when threads are posted is the mindset and feelings the person is experiencing. When I went to the bar, I was hungry and really thought I was going to greet this women's friend and basically leave with my date. When I got there and saw the 2 guys that were talking to them, I got a little alerted but still thought I should be able to pull my girl quickly based on the hooking up we did on our previous date. After the realization hit that her friend appeared to take priority over me, I became indignant and just left... I actually thought in the back of my mind that there was more of a chance she might text me a little later when she was drunk, apologize, and then I could still tap it... But equally I also thought one of the guys she was talking to with her friend might take her home since I basically ejected myself.

Anyway my point is that a 3some never once entered my thoughts. Not that you can ever judge a book by its cover, but her friend had more of a prissy look that looked high maintenance. I mean yes anything is possible... but I think to have a 3some you need to find girls that want to do it... they need to be sexually curious and desire it.... Or be a stripper into drugs.... I wouldn't mind trying to have a 3some one day but I feel like I'd have to find some strippers to do it and probably blow a lot of money.... Or find a relationship where my girl will talk another girl into it (I have a female friend who is going to do this because one of her friends want to please her boyfriend, and she always wanted to have a 3some)

Maybe I'll post a seperate thread on 3somes and we can get some stories from those that experienced it. I definitely would want to try it... but ironically I might feel like I am exposing myself to potential STDs as girls that would do it are promiscuous.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

RL = relationship

DP = double penatration. In the pu**y & a**.

 

[Reyaj]

So I re-made a pof account today and this girl sent me a message randomly "look whos back" I responded "just getting more good content to post on a blog" She responded "ha"

Even though this thing is deader than Abe Lincoln I might message her "how you been" and try to establish some convo.. or maybe I won't depends on my mood. It's all an experiment at the end of the day but let's hear the sosuave regulars start talking shvt lol come on..

 

[Who Dares Win]

Your first fatal mistake was to accept her invitation to join her and her friend.

It basically shows that she didnt want to have sex with you nor any intimacy, thats what group meetings in public places are for.

If she wanted any intimacy with you she would have met you alone in a private place and even if she didnt want to have sex but have you for her, she surely would not have done something capable of turning you off, pissing you off or making you leave.

The same moment I read that she invited you to join her friend in a public place I knew it was going to be bad for you.

They told you already how pointless was your text to bash her so I wont mention it.

The good thing is that you realized your mistake and left once meeting her with her friend and those guys.

An other option could be that her interest was medium to low so she wanted her friend to approve you, then once those two guys arrived she probably liked them and liked the fact that she could share the experience with her friend altought Im not so sure about this second part.

 

[Reyaj]

Your first fatal mistake was to accept her invitation to join her and her friend.

It basically shows that she didnt want to have sex with you nor any intimacy, thats what group meetings in public places are for.

If she wanted any intimacy with you she would have met you alone in a private place and even if she didnt want to have sex but have you for her, she surely would not have done something capable of turning you off, pissing you off or making you leave.

The same moment I read that she invited you to join her friend in a public place I knew it was going to be bad for you.

They told you already how pointless was your text to bash her so I wont mention it.

The good thing is that you realized your mistake and left once meeting her with her friend and those guys.

An other option could be that her interest was medium to low so she wanted her friend to approve you, then once those two guys arrived she probably liked them and liked the fact that she could share the experience with her friend altought Im not so sure about this second part.

Well I told her I was working late and the earliest I could see her was 9pm. So I think she went out with her friend in the meantime thinking she'd be free before I was ready. She made it sound like I would just go in and say hi to her friend and then we would leave. Her IL was high prior because we messed around good in her car after our first date.

 

[Reyaj]

I was riding so high when I met this girl and was so close to banging... I haven't been able to get much rolling since (had some makeout sessions but no lays) I have a few more prospects but after this I will be taking a break to document, analyze and post my theories on my real world experiences with women throughout the year. Stay tuned.

 

[Solomon]

Damn this story sounds similar to what I went through

Honestly I gotta laugh at the 3some thing, some of you guys watch to many porn movies (I'm joking)

Reyaj are you still in Cali? POF where I live in the midwest has gone downwhill ever since Tinder took over in 2012-2013 honestly POF is not worth it anymore

Good story, it's post like yours that keep me coming back cause I actually can learn from them

 

[Reyaj]

Damn this story sounds similar to what I went through

Honestly I gotta laugh at the 3some thing, some of you guys watch to many porn movies (I'm joking)

Reyaj are you still in Cali? POF where I live in the midwest has gone downwhill ever since Tinder took over in 2012-2013 honestly POF is not worth it anymore

Good story, it's post like yours that keep me coming back cause I actually can learn from them

Sorry I missed this Solomon. Yeah the 3some references aren't realisitic, a girl has to be looking for that to happen or be a certain sexual mindset. Tinder used to be good but now they limit guys the amount of swipes, I find POF to be much better.

 

[Solomon]

Sorry I missed this Solomon. Yeah the 3some references aren't realisitic, a girl has to be looking for that to happen or be a certain sexual mindset. Tinder used to be good but now they limit guys the amount of swipes, I find POF to be much better.

Yeah blows my mind, that guys saying "go for the 3some" they are 2 guys in set WTF? you gotta deal with them
****'s not gonna happen unless you Bradd Pitt or the girl is ooodles and noodles for ya.

 

[Reyaj]

This experience was like a bad beat in poker..