How to Pursue Single Women

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  1. terminator911

    terminator911 Master Don Juan

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    How to Successfully Pursue Single Women

    1) Playing hard to get is very important. You must appeal to her power of seduction. Let her use her sensuality and sexuality to “catch” you. The important thing is that once you know a single girl is interested in you, you can appeal to her power of seduction by playing hard to get. Don’t call her every night. Don’t make big sexual moves on her at first. You must appear interested, yet still holding back a bit – not quite sure if you want the relationship to go further. Make her feel as though she has to work harder to convince you that you do want the relationship to develop.

    2) Convince the girl that she is more interested in you than you are in her.

    Example: End the date before she does. You’ve gone out and now you are having a bite to eat at a restaurant. Instead of letting the date drag on to that awkward time when she finally says she has to go home, maintain control of the evening. While the conversation is still going well, announce that it’s getting late and it’s time to go. Tell her that you enjoyed the evening and that you are looking forward to getting together again.
    This is going to surprise her, since most guys think, that by some miracle, if they hang on long enough that maybe they’ll convince women to have sex with them. If a girl wants to have sex with you, she’ll let you know. So if you haven’t gotten the vibes, end the date while it is still going well. You’ll set yourself apart from the other guys she’s used to. You demonstrate that you are not easy to get.

    Example: Don’t rush things sexually with single women. Appear as if you are still deciding whether or not you want to be involved. The first example in this section of ending a date before she does, is a great way to accomplish this.

    Also, if the mood, the time, the place isn’t right, or it feels the slightest bit awkward, don’t try kissing her for the first time. If she’s interested, the time and place will come. But, by pushing it, you risk blowing an important event, you risk coming off as being desperate for action and worst of all, you risk appearing inexperienced and inept. Don’t be afraid to wait until the time is right.

    Example: Don’t always be available to do something with her. You have called a girl and asked her to go to a movie on Tuesday and she declines… Don’t say, “Well, how about Wednesday?” or “What day can you make it?” Simply say, “That’s too bad you can’t make it. Maybe some other time. Talk to you later.” You have to avoid making it sound as if you are free any time she wants you.

    3) Don’t always do what women expect you to do. Someone who does exactly what is expected on cue is boring. By being a little unpredictable, you become elusive, you keep women on their toes, wondering about you, and slightly insecure with respect to where they stand. If they expect you to try and make a move sexually – don’t. If they expect you to ask them out for Saturday night, ask them out for Tuesday night. If they think you aren’t interested, call out of the blue. If they expect you to call that night, call the next day.

    4) You must convince a girl that she would be lucky to be with you. You may do this to a great extent just by properly presenting yourself with your image.

    Examples: Dress as well or better than her. Be knowledgeable about the movie, the dinner, the wine, politics, or whatever. Look good but don’t brag about yourself all the time. They’ve have heard “bull” before and they won’t fall for it. Let your image speak for you. By keeping the conversation aimed at her, and paying really close attention to what she says, this will say a lot about you.
    Another way to convince a girl that she’ll be lucky to be with you is to play on her inadequacies. This has to be subtle so you don’t come off as being negative.

    Examples: If it comes up in the conversation that she’s never been to Hawaii, accent the fact with, “Really, you’ve never been there? You should go sometime. “If she mentions that she does not like her job, say, “It’s hard to work in those conditions. You should get out of a situation that makes you unhappy.” If she mentions a health problem, ask a few questions about it to accent the fact that she is not perfect. If she exposes an insecurity, ask why she lets that bother her.

    5) On the first get-together, talk only about her – not yourself. By talking about her, you learn more about her, which will be valuable to you in planning strategy. Also, it is a subject she will be comfortable with. By not talking about yourself, you let your image speak for itself. And don’t forget, the less women know about you, the more women want to know about you. Be a man of mystery.

    6) Finally, when you first get to know a girl, it would be better if she suspects that you are seeing other women as well as her. It makes you more attractive to her and she knows she will have to work hard to get you.

    How do you suggest that there are other women in your life? Just doing all the things suggested above: Playing hard to get; not rushing into sex; not calling every night; not always being available; and being unpredictable.

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  2. Anti-Dump

    Anti-Dump Master Don Juan

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    Excellent post.

    I like "the less women know about you, the more they want to know about you".

    Exactly. That's something nice guys don't have the slightest clue about.

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  3. Dee-Zy

    Dee-Zy Master Don Juan

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    2 thumbs up!

    Peace Out
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  4. Snoopydogace7

    Snoopydogace7 Don Juan

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    Also, the less a woman knows about you, the less she can use against you to TEST you.
    Another Quote" A woman will not RESPECT a man that LICKS her BOOTS " like NICE GUYS do.
     
  5. BGC

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    To my mind, this is very important. If she thinks she's competing with five other women, who are all dating you, then you're going to be money.

    Here's a trick for creating the impression you're seeing other women. I happened upon it by accident, because it was the truth when I said it, though I'll be lying about it in the future no doubt!

    Ask your date whether she likes fine restaurants, then tell her that just the other night you discovered the best restaurant! Know what restaurants are good in your area (get a Zagat survey; you really should have one regardless) and name one that is expensive! If she asks when you went, tell her on Saturday!

    Are you getting this?

    Women are smart and perceptive, so if she doesn't know the restaurant you named is expensive, she'll no doubt look into it if she's interested in you, then she'll remember you said you went on Saturday -- and presto! -- she's convinced you're dating another woman!

    And if she asks whom you went to the restaurant with (unlikely, but it might happen), say, "Just a friend," and change the subject.


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  6. IntermediateDonJuaner

    IntermediateDonJuaner Master Don Juan

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    Yeah right,YOu make it sound so easy.
    tell me if she asks you direct whether you have a gf? what you gonna say? Say yes and she will wonder why you still going after her since you've already got one.Say no and she will ask why not?

    BGC,put yourself in the situation like that and how would you handle it?
     
  7. IntermediateDonJuaner

    IntermediateDonJuaner Master Don Juan

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    Terminator911,if you can send me the complete version of this book,I would be even more happy and thank you for being so generous.
     
  8. terminator911

    terminator911 Master Don Juan

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    In that case my friend, you say the following:
    "I'm dating, but nothing serious".



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  9. Luvator

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    Hi terminator911. I really like your info., advice. Thanks, for keeping this brother on his toes!

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  10. Don the Legend

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  11. smack_roscoe

    smack_roscoe Don Juan

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    Hey Terminator:

    I got the same book, its great ain't it? Amazing all that information in such a little book. Manual actually.

    Smack R.
     
  12. krd

    krd Master Don Juan

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    Of course, this advice really only works if she has some initial interest. Playing hard to get isn't of much use if there's no attraction there to begin with.
     
  13. 318 Most Hated

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    bump this.....
     
  14. defiancy

    defiancy Senior Don Juan

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    definitely needs a bump
     
  15. Ay-stacs

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    With tha situation at hand,this is some real sh*t.I guess by being a CHALLENGE(which is the art am curently perfecting)defines the whole concept of playing hard-to-get and being rarely available with(or to) women.i think this post realy hits the nail on the head!
     

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