How to keep a gal

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  1. Take No Dirt

    Take No Dirt Master Don Juan

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    Once you have gotten over the hump by getting her home telephone number, set up the initial date and have dated her a few times, there's that nagging question in the DJ's mind: how do you keep the gal? Some DJs have said "Keeping her was more difficult than getting her". So, what are the various ways of improving your chances that she'll stay with you.

    First off, we know that females are emotional creatures (males on the other hand are visual species). Women must be emotionally stimulated, otherwise, they'll become bored, restless and will seek some other dude who can provide that stimuli. I offer the following for your consideration:

    * Give her a sense of impending finality, i.e., you may be on the verge of moving on to another gal. Let her think she's one of many chicks in your life. She'll compete to keep you to herself. She enjoys the challenge.

    * Whenever you're with her, look at your watch every so often. She'll think that you have other plans on the burner. Act like a thoroughbred horse who's champing at the bit to get out of the starting gate.

    * Show her your almost uncontrollable exuberance about life. Flash her that Steinway piano keys smile of yours. Make your eyes sparkle with excitement.

    * Whistle a tune in her presence. That way, you're giving off the signal that life is simply peachy.

    * Dress the best you possibly can afford. Your clothes must be impeccable. She will feel the excitement in you just like she felt on her high school graduation day.

    * Tease and flirt with her like crazy. Get her to the point where she almost has to take a leak because you're cracking her up so much.

    * See her sparingly but the time you spend with her, make it super quality time. Time the activities with a drill sergeant's precision. Make her breathless as you go from one event to another.

    * Project nothing but positive comments when talking to her. She must identify you with "joie de vive".

    * It's OK to disagree with her and even get mad at her. This gives a roller coaster effect, i.e., from her feeling high one minute to her crashing down to earth. Make up to her with some super sex.

    * Concerning sex, don't be predictable. Go for some role playing and fantasy. Slow almost excruciating foreplay is paramount. Tease her mind (a woman's most erotic sexual organ) and get her to literally beg you to fu*k her like a sl*t. She must be kept guessing as to what the next sexual adventure will be like.




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  2. improvingdonjuan

    improvingdonjuan Senior Don Juan

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    wow some amaizing stuff here!!! i wonder why it hasnt had many replys. but DJS if you wanted a walkthrough on how to get and keep the girls THIS IS IT

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    be confident,homorous,and charming and you will be succesful in life because people think of you as highly as you think of yourself
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    CLICK HERE and check it out!!
     
  3. Don the Legend

    Don the Legend Master Don Juan

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    Kick ass post TND!!!

    Thanks,

    Legend
     
  4. stuartSan

    stuartSan Master Don Juan

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    Moved to Tips Forum.

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  5. Galactus

    Galactus Master Don Juan

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    This is right on the money, TND. I do a lot of these things with women, and I can just feel the positive effect it has. I know already that a lot of these things work, but seeing it organized like you did it makes it more solid in my mind. I'll be referring back to this often.
     
  6. Shiftkey

    Shiftkey Master Don Juan

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    Where was this thread last week when I really needed it? [​IMG]

    Great post.
     
  7. crowes22

    crowes22 Master Don Juan

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    Hey great post TND, I think you are dead on, too bad I wasn't aware of this info all of my life. I am not a father, but I think fathers should educate their sons on how to deal w/ women. Mothers do it constantly w/ their daughters, time to get in the fight, so long as the father isn't an AFC.
     
  8. trickynick

    trickynick Master Don Juan

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    Congrats on a great post, bro!

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  9. Take No Dirt

    Take No Dirt Master Don Juan

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    I want to thank everybody here who has given me these kind kudos. I just wanted to share with all the DJs and readers here what I've found to have worked in my own life.
     
  10. Raoul

    Raoul Master Don Juan

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    Great points TND! Thanks!
     
  11. cynetix

    cynetix Senior Don Juan

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    Hey TND! Excellent post. Do you have more specific tips on how to "tease her mind"? Does it involve getting her to think you'll do one thing but then doing another? How is that accomplished?

    cynetix
     
  12. Turbobird

    Turbobird Senior Don Juan

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    Thanks TND! Great post!

    I would also appreciate some tips about teasing and flirting.

    /Turbobird
     
  13. Take No Dirt

    Take No Dirt Master Don Juan

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    OK, cynetix and Turbobird, I'll let you two young dudes into some of my secrets about teasing and flirting a chick that will absolutely drive her wild.

    The key to effective teasing and flirting is to reach into her mind (her most erotic sexual organ) and perform mental intercourse.

    First off, you need to position yourself inside her comfort zone (within a 3-ft radius of her) and gaze intently into her eyes. With a sly grin on your face, you begin your mental foreplay. You ask her if she likes to have fun (of course all girls just wanna have fun).

    You: So, does a chick like you like to have fun?

    She: Hehehe... what kind of fun?

    You: If you don't know, I'll just have to show you, but I don't think you can handle me.

    She: LOL! Oh, you're experienced, heh?

    You: Yep, I'm a BIG boy if you haven't noticed?

    She: Sure, sure! All talk and no action, I bet. Hehehe...

    You: Why you little... I'll show ya!

    She: Threats, threats....hehehe... Show me, BIG boy.

    You: Come here!

    She: You can't make me!!

    You: Oh yes, I can! You're too big for your tight britches.

    She: Oh, we're now getting sexual, aren't we? LOL!

    You: Ya bet! I'm gonna fill you up like you've never been engulfed before.

    She: Well, LITTLE boy, come and get it if ya can.

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    The points I was trying to make are: get in close proximity of her, gaze into her eyes and use that as the portal into her mind. Perform an engaging convo with her by inducing mental foreplay of a covert sexual nature. This relentless sexual bombardment of her mind arouses her erogenous regions, both mental and physical although there hasn't been any physical contact. You're in effecting fu*king her mind, i.e., giving it a sexual workout. She loves that!



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  14. Turbobird

    Turbobird Senior Don Juan

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    Wow TND! That is amazing! You really know this stuff!

    I find it very difficult to tease and to be flirtatious, but I guess I could use your line:

    You: So, does a chick like you like to have fun?

    ...and go from there.

    Could you give me some more ideas about how to start the teasing and flirting? How do you begin the teasing and flirting the next time you see her? I guess I could only ask her once if she likes to have fun. [​IMG]

    What you say probably depends on the situation, but it would help me if you could give me some more examples concerning how to begin the teasing.

    Thanks again, TND.

    /Turbobird
     
  15. Take No Dirt

    Take No Dirt Master Don Juan

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    Turbobird, I was glad to be of assistance to you.

    OK, teasing (a mild form of flirting) and flirting (carries with it a sexual connotation) often go hand in hand. First off, you must gauge whether a gal loves to be teased. If she does, then she'll go for flirting as well.

    If she's dressed provocatively, then use that as an indication that she'll be open for some verbal fun.

    You: Oh la la, you're certainly dressed to kill this evening.

    She: Do you like what I'm wearing?

    You: I sure do. You'll have all the roosters in here all hitting on you in no time.

    She: Probably, but I'm with you.

    You: Yes, you and don't you forget it! LOL!

    She: Hehehe... You're overly protective of your gal I see.

    You: I ain't worried, Baby, because you know I'm the best there is.

    She: Yeah right! Are you going to prove it, Mr. Big Talker.

    You: Let's skip dinner. We can go straight to dessert at my pad.

    She: But, I am hungry. I haven't eaten all day.

    You: I'll feed you (wink, wink) at my place. I'll fill you up, don't worry.

    She: You dog!

    You: Arf, arf, arf!

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    Turbobird, as you can see, teasing and flirting will work on a certain type of gal. You need to know your environment. What is she wearing? What's her mood? Is she the fun type? If all these factors give you the "Go" signal, you can go ahead and do your thing.

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  16. Richardactor

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    * Concerning sex, don't be predictable. Go for some role playing and fantasy. Slow almost excruciating foreplay is paramount. Tease her mind (a woman's most erotic sexual organ) and get her to literally beg you to fu*k her like a sl*t. She must be kept guessing as to what the next sexual adventure will be like.

    This whole post is amazing, but this is the crown jewel!! Good info, we DJ's have to stick together.

    Rich
     
  17. shagbear

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    This will be my bible from now on when it come to women Excellent post
     
  18. THIAGO BRAZIL

    THIAGO BRAZIL Master Don Juan

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  19. Lord_Galth

    Lord_Galth Don Juan

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    I think this should be put in the bible. Not a whole lot in there on keeping the girl after the first few dates... I wish there were more.
     
  20. Don diego

    Don diego Senior Don Juan

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    nice post, there is only one thing that´s bodering me; if you keep distant won't she simply think you are High maintenance and simply move on?
     

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