I'm a bit concerned about this and would appreciate some feedback from those of you on here who may be more experienced with this situation. From the way things are going right now, there is a possibility that I might end up hooking up with more than one woman at my gym...maybe two or three. There's the South African one I mentioned in my previous post, and then there's an Eastern European chick who just keeps staring at me and making eye contact with me, occasionally smiling, whenever she gets a chance to be around me. I haven't talked to her yet, but I seem to be getting some vibes. She often leaves the areas where she's working out to jump at other machines next to those where I'm working out. It appears to me definitely that she's noticed me. I'm not exactly sure what it may be, but she doesn't pay attention to most of the guys who try to engage her in conversation.
In fact, something really seems to have changed. Almost everywhere I go these days, a lot of women I come across tend to turn around when I walk by and to give me attention when I'm just minding my business. That's really different from my earlier years when I was just a skinny dude. My main concern is that if I end up talking to more than one woman at my gym, there's a strong possibility that I may be caught. I wouldn't know what to do if one out of the two or three women catches me by surprise working out with another woman. At least one of the two women I mentioned above works out at the gym everyday-the South African one. I've done my best not to let her know on what specific days I come to the gym so that she doesn't end up catching me there by surprise if I were to come in there some day with a different woman or if she were to see me talking to the Eastern European one.
If I hook up with more than one of these women, I'm afraid I may lose them both without even having come close to be intimate with either of them. And even though this may not make sense, I think I like them both because the two of them are very attractive. Perhaps I should focus less on trying to find someone for a longterm relationship/girlfriend material...but would the women in question understand that? What would you guys do in my kind of situation and have any of you experienced something similar? The sexual provocation in these gyms is unbelievable...it's kinda hard to resist.
In fact, something really seems to have changed. Almost everywhere I go these days, a lot of women I come across tend to turn around when I walk by and to give me attention when I'm just minding my business. That's really different from my earlier years when I was just a skinny dude. My main concern is that if I end up talking to more than one woman at my gym, there's a strong possibility that I may be caught. I wouldn't know what to do if one out of the two or three women catches me by surprise working out with another woman. At least one of the two women I mentioned above works out at the gym everyday-the South African one. I've done my best not to let her know on what specific days I come to the gym so that she doesn't end up catching me there by surprise if I were to come in there some day with a different woman or if she were to see me talking to the Eastern European one.
If I hook up with more than one of these women, I'm afraid I may lose them both without even having come close to be intimate with either of them. And even though this may not make sense, I think I like them both because the two of them are very attractive. Perhaps I should focus less on trying to find someone for a longterm relationship/girlfriend material...but would the women in question understand that? What would you guys do in my kind of situation and have any of you experienced something similar? The sexual provocation in these gyms is unbelievable...it's kinda hard to resist.
