It begins with the humility (yes, Guru1000 wrote humility) to accept that we in our corporeal form know little. Even today, we theorize about our existence and purpose. We contrived theories such as evolution and conflicting religions over thousands over years, but yet still cannot factually explain from where we arose.
Now you want to designate the evolution of social values as truth? Make sense?
I’m not a Neitzsche reader nor do I subscribe to any particular philosophy except this: There is no bad that can fall upon me. It’s simple yet deep.
Ever play chess? The skill of a chess player is determined by the depth of moves ahead he or she can think. A rookie can only see one move ahead, whereas a grandmaster can see 10 or more moves ahead. When a grandmaster makes a move, most players cannot understand the logic of the move, as they are unable to see the depth of possibilities that occur 10+ moves ahead in the future with the one move the grandmaster makes now.
Same applies in life. The seeds that you plant or strippings (e.g. rape) that occur allow us to see the consequences right now, but we lack the vision to see how these acts develop over say 10-20 years (or subsequent lifetimes).
In short, our perspectives are myopic. Ironically, my greatest experiences in life were those that society would deem most tragic. Here 10-15 years later, I just begin to understand that these “tragedies” were indeed blessings.
I do believe in the intelligent design of the universe and thus intelligence that exists outside the corporeality. Further, my own experience demonstrates that all that has happened in my life were also designed by intelligence, and all I had to do is connect the dots retroactively to clearly understand the why now.
It follows, if there is transcendental intelligence outside the corporeality which created all the beauty that you see, what logic would there be for that same intelligence which already knows what you will choose (based on your genetics and conditioning) to have created you to hurt yourself or others?
We have the incorrect understanding of pain. Pain is growth, not retraction for those who know how to navigate it’s latent purpose and transcend. The simplest example is when your weight-train, you tear your muscle and create pain to create a stronger, more versatile muscle subsequent.
Life’s pains are the evolving of your spiritual and mental muscles.
Carry on.