Ryan
Master Don Juan
Read the whole thing:
1) The Girl
2) How I asked her out
3) The date
4) Thoughts
Ok so rate and critique?
Please if you haven't gotten laid in the past three months, dont bother replying.
Thank you for your time. If you need anymore information just ask.
Questions: How can I increase her interest in me?
- Is it ok to just drive to your house when you pick up a girl for a date?
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What I did well:
Mistakes I committed:
What I will do next time:
Oh and please do the poll http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/personal-study-please-participate-in-the-poll.248714/
@Amante Silvestre
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1) The Girl
- Same girl in this field report, she just got back from INdia
- She put on some weight
- 20 year old
- Type-->> Indian FOB (yeah I have a thing for indians), thick indian accent ---> just graduated
- Looks: 6.
- Conservative: Never had a bf before, never been on a date before, never kissed a guy before
- I actually see a future with her, not just sex.... we have a similar mindset and thinking
2) How I asked her out
- Spoke to her on the phone: asked about her trip, told her about my story where I nearly had a head on collision with a transport, then I was like hey let me pick you up from work, we can chill, she suggested a festival downtown---
- She promised to bring me biscuits (cookies for the yanks on here) back from India ---> but she didn't --> so I told her she "fing sucks" and generally busted her balls.
3) The date
- I showed up early, she was still in the store (she works in like a grocery superstore), and she told me she was still buying items, so I decided to walk into the store and surprise her, I was on the phone with her the whole time while I was walking into the store. I asked her if she missed me and she said "no" lol. I noticed she looked a bit chubby, she looked a different from the first date (which was at night), I even commented "You look different", she responded "I put on ten pounds while I was in India". We walked to my car. She was complaining how tired she was (she woke up 6am that day )
- I set the address for the festival on my GPS, then we found out that this festival was already over the previous day! Then she suggested going to see deadpool 2, Im like 'No its a beautiful summer day, lets go to the waterfalls', she like "sure I dont mind"..During the ride there, I asked her what she meant on the first date when she said "When I get back from India, you probably wont see me", she explains that she thinks I would of found a hotter girl in that time.
- We get to the Waterfalls, I open my beer (Thank God it really made me relax), I noticed she is folding her arms, so I think to myself she is avoiding holding hands with me. We had to climb across all these rocks, and she was complaining about slipping, so I gave her my hand , we held hands for a bit (yeah I feel @MrWood will give me flack for this lol). As soon as I took her hand, she asked me "What is it about me that you find so interesting?" I returned the question to her, to which she replied "My friend told me to swipe on you lol! then she goes on to say " Right now I dont want to date anyone, I just want to find a job (she just graduated)"
- I suggested that we sit down-->> she starts complaining that the rocks are dirty, so we had to find a clean rock lol Eventually we find a clean rock, we sit down, I try to initiate the 36 questions (read Marmel's thread which discusses it) . She responds to most of the questions, but when I asked 'What was your most terrible memory', she says lots and refuses to answer. I then try to kiss her, she says she doesn't like PDA, and there are people around, I ended up laying a half kiss on the cheek. It then starts to drizzle a bit, and she is adamant that we leave. (I nearly wanted to tell her she is complaining too much), she then says 'Im tired I want to go home',
- We walk back holding hands, I got her to take some pics of me/us (the whole time in my head I am thinking "I want to get her to a private place so we can makeout", I see tunnel, so I am like lets go check out the tunnel, as soon as I get into the tunnel I grab her and kiss: She initially turned her head, but I plowed and we ended up kissing
, then she is like 'Lets go'. We get back to the car,and then I decided to cruise to the back of the parking lot where there is little people (told her I had a beer wanted to sober up a bit)
- We sat in the car and chatted, the whole time I am thinking of a way to segue into another kiss....I then put my arm around her...ended up kissing ( I was pretty much leaning towards the passenger seat), I started to rub her right breast and she brushed my hand away (I didn't persist). She then says she has to get home because she has to apply for her work visa soon. So I start up the car and leave. On the way back she asks me if we can pick up something from Wal Mart; I'm like sure, so we go inside the store and I walk around with her, she then asks if we can go to second cup, but it was closed.
- I drop her off at home, in the car, instead of chatting this time, she says "ive got to go", I'm like you are forgetting something, and then we kiss again.
4) Thoughts
- Seems like she is losing interest in me, I am doing all the chasing: initiating the holding hands, kiss etc.
- I think I will go NC for one week.
Ok so rate and critique?
Please if you haven't gotten laid in the past three months, dont bother replying.
Thank you for your time. If you need anymore information just ask.
Questions: How can I increase her interest in me?
- Is it ok to just drive to your house when you pick up a girl for a date?
________________________________________________________________________
What I did well:
- Told some funny stories / made her laugh
- Quick on my feet: already had a backup plan since her festival plan flaked
- Made her feel like I was her bf: helping her out at the store, holding hands (?)
- Escalated to kissing and rubbing tits
Mistakes I committed:
- Just said "lets chill" ---> never had a legit date setup.
- <<please add>>
What I will do next time:
- Have a legitimate date planned
- Find a way to be calm without alcohol
- <<please add>>
Oh and please do the poll http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/personal-study-please-participate-in-the-poll.248714/
@Amante Silvestre
@ImTheDoubleGreatest! @Igetit! @3agle3yes @MrWood @dude99 @RangerMIke @marmel75 @logicallefty @VladPatton @sph21 @Alvafe @Mauser96@Julian @JohnChops @Mazer @Desdinova @sph21 @MidnightCity @deesade @guru1000 @Dash Riprock @ubercat @Murkserious @Poonani Maker @NSX-R @Knight of Roses @skinnyguy @wifehunter @AJ84
