I always hear people saying, "make eye contact," or "look into her eyes." My question was always...WHY? What good does it do? I'd hear things like, "it shows her you're confident," or "the eyes are the window to the soul." OK...whatever that's supposed to mean. So, I pretty much didn't consider eye contact that big of a deal. Then one day I found this article and my question was finally answered. EYE CONTACT: Direct eye contact triggers a primitive part of the human brain. Unrelenting eye contact creates a highly emotional state similar to fear. When you look directly and potently into a woman's eyes, her body produces chemicals like phenylethylamine, or PEA, that jolts the sensation of being in love. To give the woman the subliminal sense that the two of you are already in love, dramatically increase your eye contact while the two of you are talking. Push it up to 75 percent of the time or more if you want to get the PEA gushing through her veins. TEST TIME: This sounded pretty interesting to me, so it was time to put it to the test. So, one night I head out to the local strip club. I told myself that I would hold constant eye contact with one of the girls during a table dance. The first couple of dancers wouldn't hold eye contact with me. Maybe they were just shy or something. Then I finally got one who held it with me throughout the whole song. Other than a nice body, I had no interest in this girl at all. About half way through the song, I start getting butterflies inside of my stomach. I don't know what effect it had on her, but by the end of the song, I felt a sense of being in love with her. I'M NOW CONVINCED!! So, get out there and focus on this eye contact. I know it's hard, but force yourself to hold eye contact for 75% of your conversation. Also, give her a slight smile and a little head tilt. This way she won't get all freaked out by you. She'll get the feeling that you're truely interested in her.