I've been reading this stuff for years, seldolmly post and let me first say that 90 percent of the stuff here is true. If you read it and practice it you will meet women and when you meet the one you want to date you will have the skills to do so. I knew all of this, but when I read about Bipolar chics after I started dating one I didn't take the advice, I got sucked in. Long story short for the past 6 months I've been with a mentally ill girl. Our relationship is great for like 3 weeks and then **** for like a few days, repeat cycle. When girl is mad I hear some of the worst, the worst insults I have ever heard. Then all of a sudden she's back like nothing ever happened. It's been hard with this one b/c we both make film, music and are into the same hobbies. It was almost like I met my soulmate and I don't even believe in that kind of stuff. It was too good to be true. Ok so we've had a few break-up, space fights...everyone who has been with one of these girls knows this. The thing is now she knows me well enough to know how to push my buttons and she does so to start **** at some points. Last week she hit a good one and all of a sudden we are in a fight, the fights get worse too as the relationship progresses. The highs are really high, but the lows...damn those lows are rough. We fought and took a few days off. On Saturday we talked on the phone for the first time since Wednesday, this is after I was dumb and sent her an email where I was honest about things and how happy I am when things are good, but how miserable this relationship can be. We talked for 2 hours and then she wanted to take me lunch. I went, we had a great lunch...was a little awkward at the beginning but we ended up having sex...even with her doing some kinky dress like I like. Upon leaving she grabs me, kisses me and says "this is all fixable...just be patient". We both agreed to meet up at a concert last night, a small 200 person show. We are there, both having a good time with my friends. About halfway through the show she looks at me, shakes her head and then gets her distance. She went like 20 foot in front of me and when she had to go to the bathroom or pass me she would ignore me completely. At one point her ex, who is a hanger on and I'm sure she leads him on came out of the crowd and started dancing with her. She looked at him and smiled...she know I was watching the entire time. I was supposed to ride home with her after, but on the way out I hugged her...not my best hug ever...but a hug. She says "weak hug. it was nice knowing you, have a good life". She then looks at my roommate and says "take care of your boy". These comments I don't understand...guessing she wanted me to explode in public or something? Can someone explain if these were just simple cuts to me. I really felt like I know her well enough to know that she was trying to ignite me. So while I was standing there looking at her I had a moment of clarity. I realized that this girl has melted me into a mush. I am not the man I was just six months ago. I laughed about it and realized this is not me at all. In the past when we would break up I would call, send her an email...do things on her terms. Today I came in deleted all of her email addresses, phone numbers, etc. It is time for me to disappear completely b/c it's obvious she has no respect for me. I don't know how this is going to work out, I would love it if she would just leave me alone for good. Does anyone have any advice on what it is like to leave a bipolar female and what I should expect in the next two weeks? Thanks guys, sorry I didn't listen to you.