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Discussion in 'Don Juan Tips' started by Pook, May 19, 2003.

  1. Pook

    Pook Master Don Juan

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    To the Nice Guys, AFCs, Chumps, and Assorted Miscellaneous Confused Males:

    Sirs: Let us have a little talk on the spirit of sexuality. This might trouble you, to be sure, it might anger others, which is most certain, but the stubborn fact remains that you cannot be successful with women ever until you embrace your sexuality. Yet until now, you were not interested in sexuality. Rather, you wanted to hear more philosophies, more tricks and tactics to be placed in your quiver of dating. It is as if you were to say: “Yes, yes, these guys that are getting girls are all very well and good. But what philosophies should we deploy to get the women? We purchase bits and pieces of philosophies on this site like we are in a Dating Wal-Mart. We, however, enjoy being the dorks we are and wish only for more philosophies to add to our arsenal.”

    How blind you guys are! Now, I wish to ask you a question.

    “Go ahead, Pook.”

    Do you see that female over there? No, not the thin one. No, not the one with the long hair and curvaceous body. I am talking about the LARGE one in front of the Ho-hos. Yes, her hair is an absolute mess. She has no sense of style. She keeps many pets and spends extraordinary amounts of money on them. Personality? She is bitter. She enjoys philosophy just as you do. Why, she is going to become a feminist!

    Is she a woman?

    “Pook! Of course not! She is FEMALE, that can be proven. But do not call such a thing a woman!”

    If she is not a woman, what is she?

    “Hag.”
    “*****.”
    “Walrus.”
    “Witch.”
    “Titanic.”

    Ah! She is an androgynous! Androgynous females do not look like girls or act like them. Three professors of mine, who I have talked to about their past and their regrets, told me they were clueless with women even though they knew everything about the Elizabethan Period, the History of the Supreme Court, and the philosophical ruminations in the 19th century. Despite that, they married the woman I described above despite how ‘brilliant’ they were.

    Other guys BLOCK their sexuality by being NICE. “Sexuality is disrespectful and makes me look like a pig!” In the end, these nice guys end up being thought up as an @ss by women and treated as one.

    If you want to AVOID this type of fate, read on.

    Embrace Your Sexuality!

    This guy has no problems talking to women except those he desires. The desire sabotages him and wrecks him completely. Listen! We can hear him!

    “I feel so guilty.”
    “This is like I don’t respect them!”
    “This is painful.”
    “I feel like I am using them.”
    “I feel dirty doing this.”

    Oh, poor guy! His problem is not the women but himself. Why is he feeling guilty? Why does he think he is being sinister? Look, we are going to see him ten years from now. Behold!

    The guy is ten years older but still has no girl. He has a decent job, a decent life, but it seems meaningless without a girl. He becomes BITTER. He is ANGRY at life.

    If only he could FIX whatever problem ten years earlier! How much joy and bliss would be in his life!

    This guy’s life has been like the hard desert with painful arrows constantly peppering him from the blazing sun. He wanders aimless, seeing an oasis in that beautiful woman who only sees him as a friend. The beautiful women, the ones he wants, are like mirages. He thought they would finally end his painful wandering and lead him into that Promised Land of bliss. Oh if he could only find one! All the pains would end!

    The key is not in finding this oasis, this woman, to end all your pains. The key is to realizing that the problem is not the women, not the situation, but himself and only himself.

    Now he stands in the desert but lo and behold, a heavenly rain has cascaded from the sky. The dryness of loneliness, the ever constant thirst for affection, is quenched with the blissful rain.

    What was the ONE THING that caused the rain that quenched his thirst and cooled the heat? It was to embrace his sexuality. If you cannot embrace your sexuality, you can never be a Don Juan, and you can never be happy in life.

    Are you a guy? Take a look in the mirror. Chances are, if you are at this website wondering the hows and whys, then you are not a guy.

    But I forget myself. Let me introduce my prop.

    Thus enters Nerd Boy.

    Why, hello, Nerd Boy! Look at you! Pocket protector and all! You have glasses and look like a drone. Your clothes don’t match. Heck, your clothes don’t even have any personality. You are so mental that you cannot grasp the ways of the flesh.

    Just as you thought the fat chick was not a woman, women will not think this Nerd Boy is a guy. Why? He isn’t fully Human. It’s obvious he hasn’t had any contact with Womaniverse (which is sexuality itself). He will make excuses:

    “I am very handsome” (which is true! A handsome drone is he!)
    “I am a genius”
    “I have a great job”

    Oh, poor Nerd Boy! Women do not possess the faculties to see beauty as men do. Women do not care for your intellect (i.e. masculine chatter). The guy that woman is with may be ugly, may even be stupid, but he is absolutely sexual. Nerd Boy is blind to sexuality and, therefore, blind to life.

    Sexuality Problem #1: Looks

    Are you ugly? Are you beautiful? It doesn’t matter. Women do not see beauty; they see only sexuality. So how does a sexual male LOOK?

    To put it bluntly, it is the bad@ss. This guy has the look of power be it a shaved head, leather coat, professional corporate suit, backwards cap, a well toned body, spiky hair, or whatever else. This person looks like a guy. He is not androgynous. He knows what his sexuality is and embraces it.

    How is a guy supposed to look? To be male is to drive against Nature, to pierce her. He is not a pretty boy (though, this might get some girls too). It is almost a ‘rough’ look. A guy has a look of some masculinity about him.

    How to Look Like Brad Pitt

    No, I didn’t mistype that. One girl I knew saw Brad Pitt on TV and orgasmed. “He looks SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO good, *sigh*.” But Brad Pitt’s effect has nothing to do about looks. Brad Pitt is a very symmetrical union of the two sexualities, male and female. He looks innocent but also as a bad@ss, sweet but rough, smooth yet rugged, elegant but strong. “Pook, this is a contradiction!” No, it is not.

    It is well known that women like guys who have some feminine aspects (i.e. PRETTY BOYS). To get the ‘Brad Pitt effect’, you need to figure out where you are on the sexuality scale (though many males like NERD BOY aren’t on the scale at all!). If you’re a feminine male, you are probably thin, innocent, modest, shy, pretty boyish, curls for hair, large eyes, and have an almost aristocratic style about you. The masculine male is muscular, large, loud, motorcycle, has a goatee or shadow, and has a sporty or outdoorsman style to him. Now that you know where you are at, simply add in elements of the other. Some guys, when they go onto Manhood, carry a piece of adolescence with them. These are the guys that end up with the ‘Brad Pitt effect’ though you can make it your own.

    Compare this to Nerd Boy. He looks at them and thinks how much ‘smarter’ he is. But is he smarter? No! They may not know their calculus, but they know their sexuality. When women flock to these guys, the Nerd Boy only stands there in awe.
     
  2. Pook

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    Sexuality Problem #2: Personality

    Come here and talk to the lovely lady, Nerd Boy! “Hiiiiiiiiii. Hooooooow arrrrrrre youuuuuuu.” Creepy! “I will do anything for you, lovely lady!” I’m sure you will, Nerd Boy!

    But when a guy has embraced his sexuality, he treats the women like they are children. “But Pook! That is not politically correct!” Foolio! This is sexuality which is above and beyond your petty philosophies and politics. Now where were we? Oh yes, he does not take women seriously. And why should he? He is a man after all. He has a sense of self. He is monad. He doesn’t need anyone to define himself.

    But embracing one’s sexuality means enjoying it. You do not look at the woman as work or as a riddle to be solved. No, you go in and have FUN. You do not dwell on BORING subjects like Nerd Boy here does.

    So what we end up with is a type of ****y and funny guy. DeAngelo covers this subject quite a bit. But you will never be ****y and funny by intentionally trying to be ****y and funny. You are not a chick putting up a façade. No, be a guy and so act like a guy.

    Here, gentlemen, is a ballerina. She has just told you of all the things she does, how she dances, and everything like that. What is your response?

    NERD BOY: “WOW! THAT IS REALLY INTERESTING! TELL ME MORE ABOUT THE FABRICS AND SPIFFY COLORS OF THE PAGEANT, THE DANCE MOVES, ETC.”

    GUY: “You must have really strong legs.”

    It is as simple as that! Some guys cannot control themselves and start being blatantly sexual to the poor women. This, of course, is unattractive to the ladies. This is not being rude or blatant. It is to realize that sexuality is not contained in the bed and is part of every interaction you have with the woman.

    Look! She is touching you! This is good. Touch is sexual in itself. Kino is sign of interest. If you kino a girl too soon, it can backfire on you. You no longer remain a mystery to her. The game is up, she knows you want her. But if she thinks you are not interested in her and you want to say you are, you kino her. Kino is a form of ******** for, “I am interested in you.” When you kino the chick, the chick understands perfectly what you are saying. Kino is communication. Using it to create interest (which may not be there) rather then as communication will backfire. (However, failure to receive or initiate kino makes one sexually a mannequin. Know why? Because mannequins do not initiate kino!)

    BAD: Hi, I’m FlirtyBoy! (Touch. Touch.) You look SO cute in that outfit! My goodness! You must get compliments all the time! (And FlirtyBoy continues to flirt.)

    RIGHT: Hi, I’m Mr. Right. (Some small talk). What’s your number?

    A guy does not flirt with chicks (unless he is working, thus captive, and has nothing else better to occupy his mind). A guy ASKS out the chick to show he’s interested.

    Sexuality Problem #3: Dating

    What to do! What to do! Poor Nerd Boy! He cannot invite the chick over to view his computer together. So he thinks, “What do males do to COURT the lady?” Dinner, of course!

    Nerd Boy and his chick eat their meal.

    But Nerd Boy, I am sorry to interrupt, how are you different from any other male? Look! There goes your woman, never to talk to you again! She said you were boring! Alas!

    “But I gave her dinner! She ought to like me!”

    But ANY guy can give her dinner. Can you give her dinner, Trash Heap Guy?

    “Yes, Pook. I can buy her dinner.”

    And what says you, Mr. Nice Guy?

    “I can buy her dinner, also.”

    And Mr. Sosuave? What about you?

    “I also can buy her dinner.”

    THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE. ANY male can buy her dinner. Heck, any FEMALE could buy her dinner.

    “So what do you suggest, Pook?”

    Action dates! Do not sit there, talking. She can do that with her girlfriends. Guys, on the other hand, are all about ACTION. Real men are not making dinner. They are swimming rivers and climbing mountains. Find something actionwise and get her involved.

    “But Pook! I enjoy sitting in front of my computer all day and don’t like ‘action dates’.” Learn to like them. Look, are you even living? There are brilliant things out there to enjoy and do. What are you wasting your youth on? Sitting in front of the computer?

    Sexuality Problem # 4: Love Shyness

    Grab your white coats, gentlemen, and follow me.

    Pook and the others go down the hall and turn to the left.

    Ahh, now we are at the testing room. Behind the window is where we will experiment. They will not see us, gentlemen, for they will see only a mirror. Here, we can peek in on the outside world.

    "But Dr. Pook, what is the experiment going to be?"

    Patience, indeed! Let us begin.

    A man was in the room and all was well. Then, all of a sudden, a GORGOUS woman enters the room. The man snuck glances. Soon, the woman got tired of this game and she came over to speak to him.

    Focus, gentlemen! Watch how he responds!

    "Uhhh ummmm errrr ooh ummm..."

    Again!

    "Errr ohhh ummmm dohh..."

    Stop! Remove the woman! Quarantine the male. We cannot risk the possibility that his error is contageous.

    "Yes, Dr. Pook."

    "Right away, Dr. Pook."

    "Anything you say, Dr. Pook."

    Ahh... it is so nice when they do what you ask. Now, display the data on our subject.

    The screen flashed up the male's brain map.

    Good heavens! I was afraid of this. His entire frontal lobe is severely damaged. Gentlemen, to show you the extent of the damage this male labels as shyness, let us look at it through the woman's perspective.

    "Not Womaniverse!"

    Yes. OK, she walks into the room. She KNOWS the guy is checking her out. (Guys, the girls are more clever then you think. They WILL SPOT YOU if you check them out. If you like a chick, she will eventually know it.) So the chick decides to talk to the guy. And the guy didn't seem capable of conversation! Why, he just mumbled and bumbled about something. What did he say? It doesn't matter. Look at HOW he said it. He wasn't speaking, he was farting from his mouth!

    Now, what was the woman thinking?

    A gentleman peered at the data and looked up, stunned. "She thought he was brain damaged."

    Exactly! And you know what, HE WAS. SHE is right here and HE is wrong. He knew something was wrong but he can't figure it out.

    The problem is Descartes. Yes, 'ol Descartes thought that he could divide the mind and body with his philosophies. Descartes thought that human beings were composed of physical bodies and immaterial minds. That blasted Dutchman Spinoza disagreed. Why, to Spinoza, feeling was not opposed to reason. Rather, feeling was an accomplice. With Spinoza, mind and body are not two but one.

    Some believe in a third way which is Freud. Freud believed that this young male's reaction was because of repression. I'm sure you've heard it before: 'that guy is going to turn into a playboy because he was sexually repressed!' But this is nonsense. We are humans, not caged animals.

    It is impossible to turn off all emotions in rational descision making. A girl can be hot but what does that matter unless you mentally acknoledge it? Ever have a particular girl you kept thinking about? Lust is not just fleshy. Lust is both mental and fleshy.

    The point is that Spinoza was right and Descartes was wrong.

    "Pook, is there a purpose to this?"

    There is and it is in that young male. When the beautiful woman came into his orbit, he tried to compartmentalize. A wave of emotion came over him. He fought against it rather than accepting it. And so, the result, is a guy that just stands there like a mark with a whole army shooting at him. Logic is to this universe as feeling/conversation is to Womaniverse. The woman thought, "Typical male!" and went off to find a WORTHIER recipient.

    Do you want to get rid of your shyness? You’re going to have to open up and get out of your solitary shell. Sure, you can deploy ‘tactics’ and ‘maneuvers’ and turn women into a piece of mathematical equation. But in the end, you are still in your same shy philosophy-obsessed world. You just destroyed her and turned her into a part of a ‘philosophy’ to absorb.

    Instead of dehumanizing the woman, why not humanize yourself?

    Sexuality Problem #5: Lack of Experience

    “No experience, no job! No job, no experience! It is like that with women!”

    Oh, foolish lad! She doesn’t care if you are still running on VIRGIN or not. The only problem is that if YOU have a problem with it. Some guys worry about their experience, worry about stupid labels. “I am still a VIRGIN though!” So what? Despite what the movies portray, sex is not life. If you have a problem with it, it is guaranteed that SHE will. Stop worrying!

    Sexuality is not a ‘philosophy’ to learn, it is more like a ‘dance’. Some males get it, others don’t. Do not demand philosophies of sexuality; you’ll only end up destroying it. And if you ask for a theory to create another ‘philosophy’ to be stacked in a bookish format to further continue your ego as A Great Thinker, consider yourself chained to this website forever.

    Embrace your sexuality and embrace life!

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    POOK
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    "As you think, you shall become."
    "The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk it all."
     
  3. ShortTimer

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    Bloody hell, I am Pinocho.
     
  4. ASav

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    Nice work here Pook. Shyt did I say nice? :D
     
  5. jwhite17

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    Pook,
    I have a couple of questions for you. Do you really believe women look at men differently just by the way he dresses(what about height, some women won't date a guy under 6ft for example)? Oh, and I'm 6'2, so that is not a concern. Are you saying that men should not deny their impulses of lust for the opposite sex and just go what they want(number, date, etc) but really not care if they get it because they don't need women because they are "monads"? So, if I go put on a leather jacket, wear nice sunglasses, spike my hair up, and go to a mall and just go up to any girl that interest me talk a little bit and ask for her number I would be "embracing my sexuality" and be a masculine male(that nature intended us to be) that isn't afraid to go after what he wants without thinking of doing a certain trick from the brainwashing of this board? Is that what you are trying to convey in this thread Pook?
     
  6. DJ Wez

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    pretty good
     
  7. HighFlyer

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    Nice post man. It embodies the reason why nearly every culture has some ceremony or acknowledgment of when a boy becomes a man. The changes that occur are the ones your describe. You hit the nail on the head.

    Peace
     
  8. Matt Rogers

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    I like this thread.....a LOT!

    I can definetely see myself making improvements on most of these areas. A few questions.

    1) For an effeminate man with thick blond hair and boyish features, what would you guys suggest I do to masculinise myself. I already lift weights and this is making a difference, but what about hair style, clothes etc.?

    2) On the breaking out of my shell part, am I right in thinking this is just inoculation through exposure?

    3) Am I correct in thinking that Pook is saying that we should embrace our emotions of excitement, fear, lust and passion.
     
  9. SlyDonJuan

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    Embracing your sexuality is called as a pervert guy!

    Sorry Pook, but no hard feelings here. Many people have said that if you're going to embrace your sexuality, then you're going to be seen as a pervert. Women will distance themselves from you because you're a horny little b@stard who can't think of anything else except pvssies.

    But isn't it possible for nice guys who are square, nerdy looking to get girls.? I've come across girls who was jokingly teasing me for having HIV. Well, what does that mean? I see it as a way of telling me that I am a pervert who displays too much of my sexuality and all I can think of was @ss. Hmm.......

    Until today, I have problems with 3,4,5 which you have mentioned above. But, I am going to improve it. And I want to tell you Pook, many people think that JERKS get women all the time. Unfortunately, the answer is NO! If jerks are supremely impressive and irresistible to women, why do I still don't get women when I became a jerk?

    There was once when I took a girl for granted and she was totally pissed off. I agreed to go for a date with her and I ended up late for 45 minutes. We continued with the date and the next time I asked her out, she cussed the hell out of me.! She was yelling at me saying that I was a complete jerk to her cause I was using her and etc. She said I always think I am the most important thing on earth and couldn't be bothered about her feelings. She even mentioned that I wasn't worth the time and effort and I am a self-centered person who isn't a guy because I do not know how to treat a girl. And blah blah blah.

    The list is long.! And it's obvious. I was being a jerk to her by making her wait for me on the date. But I thought girls are attracted to jerks, aren't they? So why didn't she want to go out for the second date? I heard that women complain a lot about how the jerks have done this and that to them and yet they still stick to them. So why didn't I score left and right with women by being a jerk? How do you explain this, Pook?
     
  10. Sisko

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    It's not abouth clothes.
    It is abouth the mentality that you have, that makes you wear that clothes. You should have that mentality. Just show off your best feature in a creative way, like women do with make up.


    Matt I think that no.3 is like you said it. You should learn to accept and embrace that feelings, and LOVE that you did.
     
  11. Matt Rogers

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    Sly Don Juan. I suggest you read Pook's post about manhood.
    Apologies to Pook, if I have misinterpreted your posts, but this is my take on what Pook eloquently puts across in his posts.

    A man is not rude or disrespectful to women or a horny bastard. A man is able to control his sexuality. By sexuality Pook does not mean that you go around naked and panting like a dog. By sexuality Pook means the features and attributes of you that are male, such as deciseveness, self-respect, drive, masculinity. He mentioned you should treat women like children, ie you tease them, but when was the last time you shouted or abused a child? Exactly. Also Pook says you should embrace your passions and have a life-never does he say that women should be the focus of your life. So do not act like a jerk, act like a man.

    Before you criticise Pook, read all his posts.
     
  12. Sisko

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    Re: Embracing your sexuality is called as a pervert guy!

    Well first you probably failed her test by appologising.
    She actually waited for you 45 mins ??? LOL.
    And don't be a complete jerk...
     
  13. SlyDonJuan

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    Read what I said carefully. I am not criticizing Pook

    I am waiting for his reply eagerly. Meanwhile , I will be expecting more replies to his thread.

    And I did not apologize to her, read my thread carefully.
     
  14. Marquez

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    Embracing life is reclaiming the paradise you have lost in your distant past. Pook is absolutely right, but as always it's hard to tell a blind how it is like to see the light.

    SlyDJ says:
    Many people have said that if you're going to embrace your sexuality, then you're going to be seen as a pervert.

    There is a difference in embracing YOUR sexuality and acting like being sexual, maybe plagiarizing something you've seen in movies, porn or media. The second type always comes on as creepy and pervert-ish. It's because denying your sexuality is not about behaviour, it's about thinking. It's about denying your own thoughts and associated feelings.
    Embracing your sexuality is essential for being alive. Your sexuality is a part of you. How can you live life to the fullest when you deny yourself? Without it, you are a vampire, a zombie residing in a world faded to grey. You see the dance of life, but for some unknown reason you do not allow yourself to participate. Sometimes you even cry. At times when the paradise is within your grasp, yet you still can't reach it.
    Personally, I left that twillight by honoring my dad and forgiving myself. I believe that male energy (equals our sexuality) comes from the line of your male anchestors.
    You are the only person you can forgive. No one else, except you children, since they are a part of you.

    Pook, thanks for your insightful post and I wish you have a fine lady by your side tonight.
     
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    Absolutely, you put your finger on it my friend. I've realised this attitude, but I do not believe that ultimatly this is an attitude that will satisfy one. I say this is unsatifying, Yes, but not to yourself, too the woman. Women are a contradiction they want respect which they SHOULD get, but with respect attraction is lost (I dont know which aspect be it challenge.. etc.). I've noticed this and wondered how a woman could ever be happy in a relationship? Pook I do believe that their must be a better way to treat women and also attract them. I just have'nt come to realise what it is.... :confused:
     
  16. thecraftylefty

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    Many of you guys still don't get it. This is not a hard concept to grasp. Pookie is trying to say BE A MAN in a different way. You're making it out to be harder than it actually is.

    You do have a penis don't you? Some (aka REAL) MEN know how and when to be sexual. Others, who just don't get it, never let their sexual side out to play. They are scared of their sexuality. They are afraid of being figured out or thought of as perverts. Guys, it's not like you go up to a girl and start asking, "Hey, where's the craziest place you've had sex?" No, it's not like that at all. Your sexuality is expressed through your demeanor, your attitude, your personality, and the way you carry yourself.

    In a way you are just being yourself.

    "If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

    thecraftylefty
     
  17. es_mer8

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    There is a difference between embracing your sexuality and being a pervert. I think Pook's message is that you are a male. You're born with a penis and testicles. Its time you realized that its a good thing to have. Thanks to society, we are taught that having the vagina is the best way to go. More specifically, having a penis should have you shunned and condemned. So you get a lot of men being uptight about how they may like a girl or may have sexual feelings and feel ashamed of it. I used to be that way. There was a slut around 11th grade that used to tell my friends about all kinds of sex she had and how do you pleasure a girl the most. She moved away but for the whole time, I was usually embarrassed or something and if she'd talked to me, I'd be like"

    "I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I don't really....know about s-s-stuff like that"

    I'd become another entity: one that really couldn't talk about sex. When approached about it, I tried to say I was straight and thats about it. I'd talk real girly and low and soft and high pitched. It was a way of my body repressing those thoughts. Same goes with when someone intimidating talks to me. Now I try to stand up for my ****.

    Anyway, great advice.
     
  18. Drow

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    WHY are we afraid of being sexual? It is the way of the world.

    It's exactly what Pook said. Women don't care if you are smart, ugly, tall, short, a doctor or a mailman. If you are not sexual, you are not going to get women.

    And if you are not sexual, you are not a Man. You are an androgynous. A nerd. A geek. A pretty, innocent boy. What ever it is, if you don't embrace the way of the world, (being sexual), you aren't going to be happy.

    Nature has a course. Just being male isn't good enough. You have to be a MAN.
     
  19. icepick

    icepick Master Don Juan

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    Look! SlyDonJuan has just invented a new internet game!

    Pookbaiting!

    Dude, how can you argue something as intangible as this on the internet? Don't. Just STOP right here.

    Seriously SlyDJ, if you get more girls by not being a pervert then DO IT! Don't be a pervert just becuase you THINK Pook is telling you to. (He is not.) If you have been having problems conversing with chicks (like you said) THEN YOU HAVE NOT "EMBRACED YOUR SEXUALITY", therefore, you cannot say that "embracing your sexuality" will not work.

    If you have problems with ANYTHING in that post, you are NOT in a position to argue it. This goes beyond language barriers, it is COMMON SENSE!

    Let alone, say that it will make you a pervert!

    SlyDonJuan, your best bet to understand this stuff would be to pick up a book that translates ENGLISH to MALAYSIAN and study the hell out of it. (You really don't need to understand the details though, so who cares? Right?)

    But if you want to be successful with women, just go and hang out with a bunch of guys and girls, and KNOW that you will improve your social skills. Get in shape. Get happy. Get LOOSE! Quit being so overanalytical and self-absorbed.

    Yes, I know that you have heard it all your life...but LET IT SINK IN! You stubborn SlyDJ you!
     
  20. Jinn

    Jinn Don Juan

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    The oldest topic on the forum and Pook still writes a winner

    But what's even more impressive is the fact that there are 18 responses not counting htis one and not one of them says anything like "I KISS THE TOILET POOK CRAPS IN!!!" :D
     

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