I've noticed a bit of a trend on these discussion boards with DJs being incredibly attracted to Single Mothers, and I also have to admit, I've fallen into this as well. Why do we enjoy the company of Single Mothers? When a DJ first meets an attractive SM, he is quite blown away at the maturity level for such a good looking woman. She seems to have her head on straight and seems to know the direction she's headed in life. Then she brings up the topic of her kid(s). Most of the time, we seem to dismiss the fact that she's previously had a child with another man. It doesn't seem to matter since this girl is so intelligent and free of emotional baggage. It gives us a breath of fresh air to meet such a woman compared to the flaky bimbos that we've all ended up dating. A SM will gladly accept a date offer from a DJ. The SM seems mature for a reason. She's had to grow up very quickly. She's had to learn adult responsibilities in a short amount of time such as cooking, cleaning, bill paying, supporting the child. Through all of this, she's developed a very mature attitude toward life and has developed the qualities that a DJ would look for in a woman. When a man starts dating a SM, he not only has to accept her, but also her child. Thus the DJ has 2 people enter into his life at once. The DJ may also find out that he enjoys spending time with the child, and ends up bonding with 2 people at once. But a DJ must be very careful. Was he initially looking for just an amazing woman to spend time with? Or was he looking for a child to raise? Was any of this incorporated into his future plans? How will it affect his future plans? We must not let go of what goals we have planned just because we have an "unexpected" child enter into our life. How does the child's father fit into the picture? We must take a LOT into consideration before we get involved with a woman with this other baggage. Another thing we must take into consideration is that there are childless women out there who have not only learned from their mistakes, but have learned from their friends' mistakes. These women are very intelligent, but they're far and few between. If we keep searching, we'll find a wonderful woman without this external baggage. I must stress this DJs, keep your eyes open! Do some serious thinking before getting involved with a SM.