I've been told recently by family, recent ex, and good friend that I'm too picky and look for a reason to dump someone.
I call it screening and not settling. But maybe I'm wrong.
My ideal situation is a physically active woman who doesn't depend on a man. She's very affectionate. She accepts me for who I am. Contributes to relationship ideas and doesn't expect me to do everything just because I'm a man. She isn't rude. She can be loud at the right times but is generally on the calmer side. She is financially responsible and clean. She doesn't have double standards. She cares about her appearance but isn't shallow and superficial.
This is a partial list I've developed from my relationship experiences. Each ex has given me something new to add to the list.
Each new person fills a gap from some other ex. But they also lack a quality another ex possesed.
I mean I could accept that maybe nobody will possess all qualities. But these are generally things I cant live with. So why settle?
What things can you overlook?
I call it screening and not settling. But maybe I'm wrong.
My ideal situation is a physically active woman who doesn't depend on a man. She's very affectionate. She accepts me for who I am. Contributes to relationship ideas and doesn't expect me to do everything just because I'm a man. She isn't rude. She can be loud at the right times but is generally on the calmer side. She is financially responsible and clean. She doesn't have double standards. She cares about her appearance but isn't shallow and superficial.
This is a partial list I've developed from my relationship experiences. Each ex has given me something new to add to the list.
Each new person fills a gap from some other ex. But they also lack a quality another ex possesed.
I mean I could accept that maybe nobody will possess all qualities. But these are generally things I cant live with. So why settle?
What things can you overlook?