Hi all,
I'm kind of looking of an outside viewpoint here.
First question...for those who have been married, when you were married how often did you text your sister-in-law?
And now...my tale of woe...
My sister-in-law's boyfriend texts my wife a few times a week. It's not the texting that bothers, but the intent.
The messages are often weird, kind of creepy personal questions. For instance, my wife's son visited us for a month when he was on break. He flew back alone.
That morning the SIL's boyfriend texted my wife, "were there not enough seats on the plane or did you not want to face your ex-husband?"
Her son has flown for years and flies free, since my wife is a flight attendant. My wife made the decision on how her son was getting back home, checked with her ex on it, and even checked with her sister. While this guy was out of the loop, it does not seem his place to even question the decision. It's none of his business what the circumstances were of the decision.
His text just set me off. If he texted and asked if her son made the flight, that would be one thing, but this seems a little creepy to me. I messaged him, strongly suggesting he include his girlfriend in all messages to my wife.He acted all surprised, like he was all innocent.
My wife is nice to the guy and she tolerates him because she's hoping he'll marry her sister.
Yesterday, I see a group text. Great! No problems.
Today he messages my wife asking how much quality away time we've had since we got married 6 months ago. While we are going on vacation soon, it still seems like a weird, personal question to ask.
I strongly reminded him of my request and his violation of it.
Am I being crazy or is there something off about this guy's actions?
I'm kind of looking of an outside viewpoint here.
First question...for those who have been married, when you were married how often did you text your sister-in-law?
And now...my tale of woe...
My sister-in-law's boyfriend texts my wife a few times a week. It's not the texting that bothers, but the intent.
The messages are often weird, kind of creepy personal questions. For instance, my wife's son visited us for a month when he was on break. He flew back alone.
That morning the SIL's boyfriend texted my wife, "were there not enough seats on the plane or did you not want to face your ex-husband?"
Her son has flown for years and flies free, since my wife is a flight attendant. My wife made the decision on how her son was getting back home, checked with her ex on it, and even checked with her sister. While this guy was out of the loop, it does not seem his place to even question the decision. It's none of his business what the circumstances were of the decision.
His text just set me off. If he texted and asked if her son made the flight, that would be one thing, but this seems a little creepy to me. I messaged him, strongly suggesting he include his girlfriend in all messages to my wife.He acted all surprised, like he was all innocent.
My wife is nice to the guy and she tolerates him because she's hoping he'll marry her sister.
Yesterday, I see a group text. Great! No problems.
Today he messages my wife asking how much quality away time we've had since we got married 6 months ago. While we are going on vacation soon, it still seems like a weird, personal question to ask.
I strongly reminded him of my request and his violation of it.
Am I being crazy or is there something off about this guy's actions?