Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Zekko, with all due respect, your arguments seem to originate mostly from your own sphere of experience. In other words, the people who you know. In the broader, more global picture, I observe that women cannot help but be sexually attracted to the "bad boy" phenomenon.
By bad boy I mean a rebellious guy, who goes against authority and thinks mostly of himself (nutshelled). A woman cannot help but to physiologically respond in the presence of such a man. Time and again I have seen women who are happily involved with a "good guy" get all weak in the knees in the presence of a rebellious, "dangerous" bad-boy.
They do not choose this, they cannot help it. It is ingrained into every fiber of their being. Some just hide it better than others. I would draw a parallel with us being happily involved with a woman. I can be very happy with my woman's appearance and sexuality, and yet if I find myself in the presence of a woman who projects that indefinable raw animal sexuality, I WILL respond. I'm not talking about sporting wood here. I'm talking about a full-body, full-mind physiological response. It is something innate that is triggered by a stimulus.
I personally think that we humans are deeply attracted to that which we do not posess. Since women lack confidence, they are deeply attracted to confident men. The "jerk" is confidence personified. Since feeling trumps thought in most women most of the time, they see the whitewash of confidence in the jerk and their mind selectively blocks out the "bad" part because let's face it... most people will see what they want to see.
By bad boy I mean a rebellious guy, who goes against authority and thinks mostly of himself (nutshelled). A woman cannot help but to physiologically respond in the presence of such a man. Time and again I have seen women who are happily involved with a "good guy" get all weak in the knees in the presence of a rebellious, "dangerous" bad-boy.
They do not choose this, they cannot help it. It is ingrained into every fiber of their being. Some just hide it better than others. I would draw a parallel with us being happily involved with a woman. I can be very happy with my woman's appearance and sexuality, and yet if I find myself in the presence of a woman who projects that indefinable raw animal sexuality, I WILL respond. I'm not talking about sporting wood here. I'm talking about a full-body, full-mind physiological response. It is something innate that is triggered by a stimulus.
I personally think that we humans are deeply attracted to that which we do not posess. Since women lack confidence, they are deeply attracted to confident men. The "jerk" is confidence personified. Since feeling trumps thought in most women most of the time, they see the whitewash of confidence in the jerk and their mind selectively blocks out the "bad" part because let's face it... most people will see what they want to see.