It's pretty well accepted here that most women don't give very good advice on how to pickup women. But this "wingwoman" actually had some decent advice: http://articles.cnn.com/2011-07-14/...ls_1_women-nice-guys-secrets-men?_s=PM:LIVING "You have to think about picking up girls the exact same way you think about picking up a box. You just do it." I have been studying this "game" stuff for a few years now and that's about as good a summary of what it all boils down to as I've ever read. To be fair of course, this woman has seen it from a guy's perspective and she is more aware of how the sausage is actually made compared to the average broad who only sees the finished product.